Cheating gives the worst form of hurt to the person being cheated on. In today’s story, OP recently discovered her husband’s affair with her high school bully, a revelation that blindsided her as there were no prior signs. This affair, which began six months ago and was accidentally uncovered three weeks ago, left OP devastated. OP grew up in a small town and left behind the painful memories of being bullied by this woman. After finding a fresh start in a new city, OP met and married her husband two years ago. she is currently eight weeks pregnant but hasn’t informed him yet.
Despite her shock and pain, OP has decided to leave her husband without confronting him about the affair because OP doesn’t want to be a victim again. She is determined to start anew, surrounded by friends in the same city where I’ve built cherished memories. OP has initiated divorce proceedings and plans to purchase a small apartment as a new beginning for myself and my soon-to-arrive baby.
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OP discovered her husband’s affair with her former school bully, opting to leave without confronting him.
The affair started six months ago, and OP could not know.
OP explains how that woman bullied OP in her high school, leaving her with so many hurtful memories.
OP bumped into the bully at a party years later with her husband, but she didn’t tell anyone anything as she did not want to open old wounds.
OP caught his husband cheating on his phone in an app while he was taking a shower.
OP traced the relationship back to several months before and found out they had been sleeping together.
They were also discussing OP’s personal things where the bully was asking questions, but the husband was reluctant to answer.
OP wants to leave her husband without telling him or confronting him because he cannot give her bully the satisfaction that she hurt her again.
OP asks for advice and help on this matter.
Here’s an update from OP.
OP says she does not need a lawyer due to the following reason.
OP is clearing up that she is not protecting his husband’s reputation.
OP explains she is not getting rid of the baby.
OP finally told his husband she is leaving because she is unhappy in the marriage.
The husband kept asking if he did anything wrong but OP did not tell him.
He came to have breakfast with OP after begging so she finally did, but that’s when the bully texted.
OP told him all about how she bullied OP in high school and is a bad person. The husband was shocked.
OP plans to buy an apartment and live there until she heals and is there for the baby.
Let’s see what Redditors had to say on this.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
OP is a strong woman and took the right decision.
The ex’s ego would have been badly hurt and we love it.
Her personal growth went downhill.
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