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After 16 years together, during which the OP financially supported their partner through various ventures and carried the bulk of responsibilities in their shared life, including purchasing a home and remodeling it, OP finally ended the relationship due to feeling overwhelmed and unsupported. Despite the partner’s protests, claiming entitlement to half of the house’s value, the OP stands firm, citing their sole financial contributions and the absence of legal recognition of common law marriage in their state. As tensions rise, the OP remains resolute in their decision to retain ownership of the house and move forward independently, leaving their ex to struggle with the consequences of their choices and the end of the relationship.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP asks whether he’s an A-hole for not selling his house and giving half of it to his ex.
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2. OP and his ex have been living together for 16 years and they never married nor did they have children moreover, at the beginning of their relationship they shared their finances which was 50/50 but it didn’t sustain as one of them fell on hard times.
3. For two years OP had been carrying him and it got to the point where he stayed home and OP was working 2 jobs and even going to school. But OP somehow managed as in 2017 she got a job at a bank and at a gym. In short, OP was grinding and got his credit score better than before.
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4. In 2019, OP and his boyfriend decided to buy a house and they found a home and started going through the purchasing process. As OP’s credit score was good they put a loan in his name and luckily, OP’s boyfriend also got a job in which he took the ownership of a business.
5. While he was busy remodeling the business OP was taking care of all the remodeling of the home while working and going to school. The house was ready to move in eventually, but something happened between them and the bf got mad at OP and refused not to help him move in.
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6. OP has been covering house bills and has kept the relationship not to fall apart. Meanwhile, OP’s boyfriend’s business was failing and he wasn’t able to pay himself a decent wage. OP got fed up and broke with him as he was taking care of everything and now he’s asking OP to sell the house and give him half.
7. OP told the users that he feels like OP owes it to him since they have been together for 16 years. But OP stood his ground and refused to do so and now he’s saying that OP screwed him over in life.
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8. Exactly, OP wasn’t married and it doesn’t make him entitled to the house if he has spent 16 years with OP.
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9. OP needs to walk away guilt-free as he’s not even the slightest a-hole.
10. That’s more than enough.
11. What are your thoughts about this?
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12. In this story, OP was the one who was keeping the relationship from falling apart by contributing everything he could do.
13. This user is speaking facts.
14. He has been nothing but a liability to OP.
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15. We will see you in the court.
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16. What’s even the point of running such a business when you are getting nothing?
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17. He’s the one who screwed himself not OP.
18. Enjoy your home alone OP there’s a lot of fish in the sea.
19. OP has already done enough for him and the fact he isn’t satisfied with it shows that he won’t ever be satisfied in life no matter how successful he becomes.
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20. It must feel great and am very positive about it.
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