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In this story, it appears that tensions have arisen within the family due to a comment made by the 21-year-old sister in response to her 32-year-old sister’s announcement of being pregnant with twins. The younger sister expressed concern about her older sister’s frequent pregnancies, suggesting that her husband should “leave her alone.” This comment led to a heated exchange, with the older sister feeling offended and the younger sister being unapologetic about her concern.
The conflict highlights a common family dynamic where opinions about personal choices, especially those related to family planning, can lead to strong emotions and disagreements. While the younger sister may have genuinely cared about her older sister’s well-being, her comment was perceived as judgmental and intrusive.
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1. OP’s sister has been married for 8 years and they have 6 kids in total
2. OP’s sister announced that she was pregnant with twins, and everyone congratulated her but OP said something unusual out loud which she found offensive.
3. OP told her sister that she is concerned about her health as she is having so many babies in such a short time
4. OP’s sister said that she should leave them alone and she better worry about her own life, OP’s mother said she should be apologizing to her for being rude but OP thinks she does not want to apologize for showing concern.
5. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not
6. OP also told the viewers that she does babysit her sister’s kids all of them and they even pay her moreover, she said that her kids are pretty destructive.
7. OP said she’s aware that her comment was inappropriate
8. OP apologized to her sister for insulting her husband and making that rude comment but she says she’s still worried about her having so many kids back-to-back
9. OP’s sister forgave her and assured her that she was fine and even said this was gonna be her last pregnancy as her husband was going to get a vasectomy
10. OP briefed users who were concerned about how she and her husband afford to have so many kids, she said that her husband runs a very successful business.
11. OP said that her husband was the one who wanted a big family and her sister went along with the idea
12. This user said OP is an A-hole for saying this to her sister as it was rude
13. Here comes another user who thinks OP is an A-hole
14. This user said according to his opinion OP is NTA as it is so hard to take care of so many kids
15. This user also said OP is NTA and even said OP could have been more tactful
16. Well, it is true.
17. OP needs to have control over the things she says, and she also needs to consider things before saying them out loud.
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