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In this story, tensions have risen as a couple has decided to have a child-free wedding, a choice they both agreed upon. However, the future mother-in-law is deeply upset by this decision, particularly because her other son, who is set to be the best man, will have a baby around 8-9 months old by the time of the wedding. Despite the availability of other family members who could help look after the baby during the event, the mother-in-law has expressed her disappointment and has resorted to emotional manipulation in an attempt to change the couple’s decision.
Her reaction, which includes threats to not attend the wedding and accusations of tearing the family apart, has created a rift between the family and the couple. The couple feels that the mother-in-law is taking this personally and attempting to undermine their choices. So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to figure out whether OP’s an A-hole or not.
1. OP and her fiance are getting married and they both decided that it’ll be a child-free wedding
2. Mother-in-law is devastated by this idea because her other soon is having a kid
3. MIL threw a tantrum when she got to know about the child-free celebration they were on a family day out and she spent the rest of the day sulking
4. MIL called her fiance saying if the baby isn’t coming then your brother won’t come but the best man said he will probably come without his wife and kid
5. She said if they don’t change their mind she won’t be coming to their wedding, neither your brother nor your sister. She even said you are tearing our family apart
6. OP is now pissed at her because according to OP she’s trying to guilt trip her into doing what she wants although the couple both agreed upon a child-free wedding
7. Mother-in-law ended the call by saying tell OP that I don’t want to speak to them until they come back to their senses
8. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hoke for wanting a child-free wedding
9. This is hilarious and yet true
10. Maybe they need to take this advice seriously
11. In fact she is throwing childish tantrums
12. Everyone thinks that OP and his fiance are NTA, what are your thoughts?
13. NTA
14. Well, if they had any problem with this they would have let OP and his fiance know. I guess it’s only mother-in-law mouthing off.
15. This user said that MIL will change her tune once the wedding is closer
16. So far it’s only MIL let’s wait to hear what they have to say
17. Exactly, he needs to talk to his brother.
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