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OP (F23) recently faced a challenging family discussion about the potential guardianship of her 33-year-old sister, who has disabilities. Despite having two older brothers who are married and established in their careers, OP’s parents have consistently conveyed that she would be the designated guardian. During a dinner conversation, OP proposed three alternatives, including making all three siblings guardians, creating a trust for her sister’s care, or leaving her the entire estate under the condition that OP becomes the sole guardian. Unfortunately, her parents accused her of trying to evade responsibility and labeled her as greedy, leading to a heated exchange that left her mother in tears and her father visibly upset.
In a last-ditch effort to find a resolution, OP suggested the extreme option of being completely cut out of the will if it meant she could be relieved of the guardianship responsibilities for her sister. This proposition deeply angered her father, and her brothers criticized her for springing this on their parents, accusing her of selfishness.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an a-hole or not.
1. OP has been told her entire life that if anything happens to her parents she will be her sister’s guardian moreover, she is 33 with some disabilities.
2. OP visited her parents last weekend and they again brought it up that OP would be her guardian moreover, OP told the users that she has two oldbrothersher and they would be a bettguardiansian than her.
3. OP had three idethatich she told her parents regarding guardianship
4. The third idea was that they should leave their entire state to OP
5. The parents said OP is trying to shirk her responsibility and they also said OP is being greedy trying to get everything
6. OP’s brother called and said that OP is being an a-hole to her parents, now OP wants to know whether she’s an a-hole or not. Let’s find out keep scrolling.
7. NTA
8. OP needs to stand her ground because they are beily unreasonable
9. Guilt trip is not gonna work for OP
10. OP came with every reason but they weren’t willing to so do because they wanted OP to take care of her
11. Not even a single person said OP should be responsible for her disabled person
12. On point!
13. What are your thoughts on this?
14. Exactly, OP needs to stand her ground firmly and the fact they are dumping such a huge responsibility on her is unreasonable and unfair.
15. Rather than OP her brothers are the real greedy ones
16. OP his whole life ahead of her and the brothers are the ones who should take care of her
17. To me as well
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