In a recent Reddit post OP, shares a heart-wrenching tale of betrayal, forgiveness, and self-discovery. Four years ago, OP’s life took an unexpected turn when their fiancé, referred to as J, vanished without a trace just moments before their wedding ceremony. The pain of abandonment forced OP to rebuild their life, find healing, and establish a new relationship. However, an unforeseen twist occurs when J resurfaces and expresses a desire to meet and apologize.
OP’s post resonates with readers, who empathize with the emotional turmoil and confusion they face upon hearing from their ex-fiancé. Seeking closure and torn between curiosity and respect for their current partner, OP turns to the online community for guidance. The outpouring of support and advice encourages OP to confront their past and ultimately agree to meet with J.
Two weeks after sharing the initial post, OP provides an update on their meeting with J. Accompanied by their supportive current partner, OP meets J in a park as part of a 12-step program where J is making amends. As the conversation unfolds, OP realizes that reconnecting with J does not add value to their life. Instead, it serves as a reminder of the red flags and deception that were present in their relationship.
Keep on scrolling down to read the full story in OP’s own words and we will see you at the end of the article.
1. OP forgot to mention these things in the post, so keep them in mind while reading
2. OP just stumbled upon this subreddit
3. This happened almost 3 years ago
4. Everyone was pretty tired from walking around all day
5. OP attended a private international high school in Shanghai
6. OP spotted a girl he recognized from playing sports with other schools
7. OP was confronted with the most forced smile he has ever witnessed
8. She yelled at OP!
9. “Excuse me” was all OP could mutter!
10. OP looked around and there were her two kids behind her
11. OP told her that she’s not supposed to take those
12. OP could only sigh
13. OP decided that it was not worth it and started heading toward her group
14. There were two things that pissed OP off!
15. Here’s the second reason!
16. OP yelled this without even turning around!
17. OP heard a comically loud gasp!
18. OP pushed her hand away
19. OP caught his friends at the keychain area close to the counter
20. OP heard a loud screech!
21. OP saw the manager on the verge of breaking down
22. OP has been called homophobic!
23. OP strode towards the woman
24. She kept screeching at the manager!
25. The manager shoved the woman off!
26. She started screaming!
27. She went straight back to screaming and crying!
28. She said never in her life someone has disrespected her like this
29. OP was surprised that she lived here in China for 6 years and still didn’t learn Chinese!
30. That’s how the conversation went between them
31. OP and his friends ended up going to the Cheesecake factory
32. OP thanks the person who sent him his first Glid!
33. OP saw a lot of people mention that she was a bad “tourist”.
34. It sure is hilarious lol
35. First one was opened in Shanghai in 2016
36. Couldn’t agree more!
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