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In a poignant Reddit post shared on r/RelationshipAdvice, an anonymous user, shares a heart-wrenching tale of betrayal, forgiveness, and self-discovery. Four years ago, OP’s life took an unexpected turn when their fiancé, referred to as J, vanished without a trace just moments before their wedding ceremony. The pain of abandonment forced OP to rebuild their life, find healing, and establish a new relationship. However, an unforeseen twist occurs when J resurfaces and expresses a desire to meet and apologize.
OP’s post resonates with readers, who empathize with the emotional turmoil and confusion they face upon hearing from their ex-fiancé. Seeking closure and torn between curiosity and respect for their current partner, OP turns to the online community for guidance. The outpouring of support and advice encourages OP to confront their past and ultimately agree to meet with J.
Two weeks after sharing the initial post, OP provides an update on their meeting with J. Accompanied by their supportive current partner, OP meets J in a park as part of a 12-step program where J is making amends. As the conversation unfolds, OP realizes that reconnecting with J does not add value to their life. Instead, it serves as a reminder of the red flags and deception that were present in their relationship.
Keep on scrolling down to read the full story in OP’s own words and we will see you at the end of the article.
1. Ex-fiance wants to meet after four years! Keep on scrolling down to read the full post.
2. Four years ago OP was supposed to be getting married to her fiance at the time
3. OP went back to her apartment and all of his stuff was gone too
4. He told OP that he has a lot to explain to her about what happened that day
5. OP’s sister pushed OOP to write an update post!
6. OP and her ex-fiance met at a park and OP’s boyfriend came with her
7. OP says that she feels stupider after meeting with him
8. He was doing drugs and was cheating on OP in the last year of their relationship!
9. The drugs were something to get him through the day
10. His boyfriend said he needed to choose between him or OP
11. OP asked if he was still with his boyfriend
12. He apologizes for not being honest!
13. OP says it was a lot to take in
14. OP admits that when she got home she cried
15. This Redditor says that even she wouldn’t have been able to resist meeting with the ex
16. She sure has a heart of gold
17. This is the line that stood out for this Redditor and this is what he has to say
18. This Redditor says that a drug addict can keep a normal life together for far longer than anyone would anyone believe!
19. This Redditor’s ex reached out to her for something similar
20. It does sound like he wanted to hurt OP
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