Wife Leaves Christmas Dinner By In-Laws Because She Didn’t Want To Eat What Was On The Menu

Christmas is a time of joy, celebration, and family. But for one Reddit user, u/Rema5000, it was a time of conflict, frustration, and controversy. In a post on the subreddit “AmItheA$$hole?“, OP shared their story of leaving their fiance’s family Christmas dinner after finding out that they did not make any food that suited her preferences. OP shared she is a picky eater due to psychological factors, childhood, and personal likes and dislikes. She also shared she had asked her future mother-in-law to make one of the dishes she suggested, but she refused and told her to bring her own food to the dinner if the pre-made arrangements didn’t suit her well. OP didn’t do that and instead walked out of the dinner when she saw that no accommodations were made for her.

OP received backlash from her fiance and in-laws which made her knock on the doors of the AITA community.

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Source: u/Rema5000

1. That depends on whether the whole dinner was arranged just for you or not. Let’s find out.

2. OP shared two very important details that blended together and created a Christmas drama.

3. Before the celebrations, OP told her future MIL to accommodate her in terms of the food.

4. But the MIL refused and told OP if she didn’t want to eat the food that will be presented for dinner, she could happily bring her own.

I don’t see any problem in this. Christmas dinners are very traditional. Nobody wants to go out of the way to cook something special for a single person because they don’t like what is on the money. Cooking the traditional Christmas dinner is already too hectic and time taking. By suggesting her DIL to bring her own food, I don’t think MIL did anything wrong.

Let’s see what happens next. Scroll down below to continue reading.

Source: u/Rema5000

5. When OP arrived at the dinner, she noticed the in-laws hadn’t accommodated her the way she wanted, and left the event.

6. The fiance called OP an AH for what she did.

7. OP stood her ground firm as her fiance told her she ruined their first Christmas together for him.

8. The dilemma between psychological factors and relationship building made OP knock on the doors of the AITA community.

Source: u/Rema5000

Here’s what the internet had to say about this:

9. With the behavior OP has got, her relationship will not survive.

Via Aquarius052

10. That was enough accommodation and you ignored it, OP.

Via OrangeCubit

11. OP wanted to create a scene on her first Christmas with in-laws. Oh my god, she is a Karen.

Via clockwork2004

12. She doesn’t seem interested in her in-laws just the way her fiance won’t be interested in her in a few months time.

Via walkerpurple

This is definitely not the way to build foundations for a relationship you expect to go strong for life. Take tips, people.

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