In this situation, the husband and wife are at odds over their living situation due to their pets. Despite the husband’s deep attachment to his untrained dog, the wife refuses to give up her beloved cat to secure a rent-to-own home that only allows one pet. The husband’s insistence on prioritizing his dog’s presence over the family’s needs and desires leads to a rift in their relationship, with him accusing the wife of lacking the same bond with her cat. As tensions rise, the wife stands her ground, unwilling to compromise on her feline companion, while the husband withdraws emotionally, choosing to prioritize his dog’s comfort over resolving the conflict.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to tell us whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP asks whether she’s an A-hole for refusing to get rid of her cat so her husband can keep a dog. Let’s see what happens next.
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2. OP and his husband have two boys and they have a cat and the husband has a dog. OP said she’s never been a dog person. After months of persuading OP, she finally said yes after the protest. Moreover, OP said she doesn’t hate dogs but the owners lack training.
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3. OP finally said to him yes, and the husband rushed and got a dog. But OP made it clear that she needs him to train the dog and she wouldn’t be responsible. OP told the users that the dog is a total horror as she still gets in the garbage and whine due to her anxiety.
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4. OP told the users how the dog has made her life uncomfortable to the point that even the kids don’t like the dog.
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5. OP found the place that her husband wants desperately but they made it clear that only one pet is allowed so he asked OP to get rid of her cat OP denied so he called OP an A-hole for not bonding with the dog as she bonds with the cat.
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6. OP told the users that the husband had been angry with OP and OP asked the users whether she was an A-hole or not.
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7. OP said she asked her husband to get the dog into training due to her being reactive but the husband refused.
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8. OP tried her very best to train her and for a while, OP thought it was working but in reality she no longer listens to OP and her behavior has added to the frustration of OP.
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9. The dog doesn’t see OP as an alpha and doesn’t respect OP or her position at all.
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10. But when OP talks about this to her husband he gets pissed off and says that OP is being mean.
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11. And when OP confronts him he says he will do better next time but he doesn’t.
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12. Lol this is hilarious, what are your thoughts about this?
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13. Exactly, and the main reason that makes him an A-hole is that he doesn’t even realize that he’s wrong.
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14. The cat here gets to live!
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15. And if he really wants to keep the dog then he at least must train her properly.
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16. This could be an option lol.
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17. To be honest, if he keeps on reacting with childish behavior then he deserves this.
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18. This user is speaking facts!
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19. Exactly, the cat was the one who was living even before the mischevious dog.
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20. Not even a single person said OP is an A-hole.
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