Hussain
In this story, a nurse faces a conflict between her demanding job and her husband’s insistence on attending a family BBQ. Despite explaining her work commitments, her husband manipulated her by driving her to the family ranch instead of her workplace. Feeling desperate to avoid job repercussions, she took the opportunity to drive herself to work using her husband’s car, exacerbating the conflict and leading to a fallout with both him and his family.
Later the husband expresses anger and disappointment through multiple messages, highlighting strained relationships and the need for better communication. Moving forward, OP faces the challenge of rebuilding trust and addressing the underlying issues with her husband. Honest conversations about priorities and expectations are crucial for resolving tension and fostering a more supportive relationship.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP is a nurse and she has a very busy schedule it has been even more hectic for her in past years moreover, she said that her husband works an office job and he’s more like a family-oriented type of guy. OP’s husband’s family lives on a ranch and it’s a struggle to get there so she makes sure she doesn’t miss big functions.
2. OP’s husband wanted her to go with him to his family BBQ party and he insisted her because all of his brothers were coming along with their wife since he went along in the past they mocked him over it, and he wanted OP to go with him so badly that he called some of her friends to cover her shift but OP denied it.
3. OP wanted to go for her shift but then she discovered that her car’s tires were out of the air so her husband offered that he would drop her to the hospital OP agreed, and he drove her straight to the family BBQ. OP was so pissed off she didn’t know how to react.
4. OP was waiting outside and that’s when she figured out that she still had time to go to the hospital she figured out that her husband went in and left the keys next to her, so she took it and rushed straight to the hospital. And when the husband’s dad told him about this he started calling her but she turned it off.
5. And when OP turned her phone on there were tons of messages from her husband in which he was pretty angry and even called OP a horrible and manipulative person
6. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole for what she did, let’s find that out keep on scrolling.
7. NTA
8. What the husband did could have cost OP’s job
9. Users thought that it was OP’s husband who defeated her tires and he’s the one who’s the manipulator
10. What do you think guys and gals was it a kidnap?
11. Almost everyone said OP is NTA and we could understand why
12. At least he could have been empathetic towards her or tried to understand her profession
13. This user got a solid point!
14. This is the fact which makes him a complete A-hole
15. Exactly, actually he’s the manipulative one!
16. What can we say a lot of users have solid points and those points can’t be justified because they are right
17. Right on point!
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