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In this story, a 36-year-old woman has been married to her 42-year-old husband for two years. The husband, having been married twice before and being a father to six children, has requested that their finances be split. The woman agrees, given her frustration with her husband’s seemingly irresponsible spending habits. Despite their arrangement to take turns paying for daily expenses, the husband has been struggling financially, even borrowing significant sums from various people, including the OP’s brother.
Recently, the husband asked to borrow $14,000 from his wife, but when pressed for the loan, he refused to provide details, claiming it was none of her business. OP, concerned about the situation and wanting to protect her financial interests, insisted that he sign a contract outlining the terms of repayment before she would agree to lend the money. This request led to a heated argument, with the husband expressing offense at the lack of trust and accusing the wife of involving lawyers and courts in family matters. The husband, upset, left the house and has not responded to the woman’s calls since.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP has been married to his husband for 2 years and she has never been married before on the other hand husband has been married twice and has 6 kids moreover, OP said he requested their finances to be split because he says he has kids commitments and has to provide.
2. OP says she doesn’t think the kids would need that much money and his bank account is always empty
3. OP said he has been struggling with money and borrowed from several people including OP’s brother and when she asked about it he had the same answer that he needed it for the kids but according to OP, she says she’s it’s fishy as the eldest kid is only 16 and they don’t seem to need that much of money.
4. He asked 14000 to borrow from OP but when she asked why he needed it he said it was none of her business and then insisted that he would return it, OP said yes but she set a condition that she would pay only if he would sign the contract stating he’ll return the money in full but then he acted shocked and offended.
5. And when OP insisted on a contract to be signed before getting the money he snapped at OP and said she should be ashamed for involving courts and lawyers between family
6. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not, let’s see what users have to say.
7. Exactly, people with such attitudes have a gambling problem
8. Definitely NTA!
9. A lot of users said that he was gambling and they were quite sure of it, what do you think?
10. You need to give a reason when borrowing such amounts
11. Now I gotta go along with these users
12. Maybe then denying is the best solution
13. Soo many red flags spotted, to be honest
14. On point!
15. I am guessing this too, only then you don’t wanna tell what you are spending on when you are gambling.
16. This could be true
17. Change my mind?
18. Exactly, if he would have maybe then we could have said it’s not gambling but until we are not sure then it’s probably gambling.
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