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OP and his 28-year-old husband just permitted his 27-year-old brother to move in with OP’s family. They all work the same hours, Monday through Friday, with an occasional Saturday. Since OP work she can adjust my hours as needed. On Tuesdays, OP does her husband’s and her clothes first thing in the morning before she leaves for work, and on Wednesdays, she also does the towels and his brother’s stuff. Very few wives agree because it’s not her husband’s laundry it’s also his brother-in-law’s laundry. On those days, since they don’t have a washer and dryer at home, OP takes the laundry somewhere else, which, to be quite honest, she does not mind at all. she informed his brother would be paying $100 each week, and that would cover OP doing his laundry.
And things are getting complex for OP because her husband is complaining that “they are tired of doing the dishes and that clothes need to be placed in a proper hamper”. Now all of these complaints are bothering OP and she asks if she’s an A-hole for refusing to make dinner for them. Keep on scrolling down below to know what happened here, and make sure you guys read it to the end otherwise, you are not going to get the whole point here.
1. So here’s how it starts, they all work full time and OP is self-employed and for sure she seems like a great woman, let’s see what happened next.
2. OP is not only the main transportation for everyone rather she’s the main character for the house
3. OP is a dedicated woman but all of these chores must be tiring for her, what do you think?
4. Even children know where they have to put their dirty clothes, at least they can put the clothes into the hamper by themselves, can’t they?
5. OP is contributing to the home more than anyone.
6. Seems like a fair deal, if the dishes are not completed she’ll not cook, and if things wouldn’t be placed properly in the hamper she’ll not wash them too until the following week, let’s see how they behave now.
7. OP has been told that this a harsh approach, sometimes you just have had enough and you decide to stop taking it anymore, let’s see what other Redditors think about this.
8. These boys have you acting like their mama, apparently, OP is contributing more than anyone in the home and they are still complaining about it. According to us, OP is not an A-hole.
9. Being an adult means contributing the same amount of energy to every chore
10. OP is like a maid, food, and a driver to the. Exactly, that’s my point even children know where do they have to put clothes. She’s only asking for basic things, is it too much to ask for?
11. “She adopted two grown-ass men”
12. While other users had to say this
13. And the list of being unfair goes on and on and on
14. And those men are still complaining? Isn’t it quite unfair?
15. Solution has appeared, no laundry and no cooking until everyone behaves like a responsible adult, what do you think?
16. These boys are A-holes, never a man should treat a woman like this.
17. Sounded more like slave labor?
Those men were behaving just like little children, instead of behaving like grown men. They should have contributed more since OP was contributing a lot more than them. According to the facts above OP’s husband and BIL is an A-holes.
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