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Redditor Asks If They Are Wrong For Asking Roommate To Get Their Packages Off The Porch

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OP is a Canadian government contractor seeking clarity on a situation with their roommate. They work away from home and frequently receive packages, which they ask their roommate, who works from home, to retrieve from the porch. However, the roommate often neglects this task, leading to packages being left unattended. OP is concerned about theft, especially when receiving mailed joints from their sister. The roommate dismisses OP’s expectations as excessive, asserting they’re not obligated to help. OP acknowledges it’s not a daily request and offers favors like car use. They question whether they’re being unreasonable or if the roommate’s stance is unfair. The situation revolves around differences in perception: OP considers it common courtesy to assist, while the roommate disagrees. OP seeks perspective on whether their concerns are valid or if they should reevaluate their expectations.

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OP in the edit corrects that he is a Canadian. And later explains the room and porch location of the roomate.

As a government contractor who can’t work from home, OP asks his roommate (who works from home) to get my delivered packages off the porch, but they usually don’t, OP wonders who’s wrong here.

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The packages were left on the porch 99% of the time despite the roommate’s promise. OP asks for help; he’s quick with his, not OP’s.

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OP’s roommate calls him demanding; OP fears porch theft. Redirecting packages isn’t always possible. Worried about stolen mailed joints. OP believe in courtesy, but they disagree and argued over this.

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The story highlights a conflict between roommates regarding responsibilities and expectations. It highlights how differing perspectives on the topic of common courtesy can lead to misunderstandings. Communication is always the key to solving conflicts.

Those who have had the experience of being with a roommate would understand this story better. Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article too.

It was not a big deal to do a five seconds task for your roommate.

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Redditors are of the view that the roommate was being an a-hole.

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Roommates are supposed to help each other in such times.

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If both the roommates are equally considerate then there’s no problem.

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It was not a demanding behavior at all. It was basic courtesy to do a small task.

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The roommate needs to mend his morals.

True.

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