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In this situation, there’s a wedding coming up, and the bride has a problem with her sister’s boyfriend. The bride said the sister’s boyfriend couldn’t come to the wedding, and the sister got upset. She’s not joining in on the fun parties before the wedding or helping with the wedding plans. The sister thinks the bride is being mean because other people can bring their partners, even if they’ve been dating for a shorter time.
The sister’s relationship with her boyfriend is a bit complicated. She met him at work when she was already engaged to someone else, and he was married. They both left their partners to be together. The bride doesn’t like the boyfriend for a few reasons: he’s still in the process of getting divorced, he gave what the bride thinks is a lame excuse about his previous relationship, and he has different values than her sister. The bride worries that her sister is changing because of this relationship and doesn’t want to lose her to it. But she’s also concerned about what other people will say about her sister’s choices at the wedding.
Now, the bride is wondering if she’s wrong for not inviting the sister’s boyfriend or if she should give in and let him come to the wedding. So keep scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end.
1. OP’s sister has been with her new boyfriend for 8 months and they are living together, the thing is when she met the guy she was already engaged in a 10-year-plus relationship and he was married. They both were already in a relationship when they met each other at work.
2. OP met this guy and said she doesn’t like her at all and when she asked what are his intentions toward her sister, and why he ended with his wife he replied that he was forced into his previous relationship and he didn’t know love was real until he met OP’s sister.
3. OP told viewers that his values are completely different than her sister
4. OP said that her sister is turning into someone whom no one will recognize in the family and OP doesn’t wanna lose her at any cost moreover, OP said that no one outside the family members knows that she cheated.
5. OP doesn’t want her wedding to be focused on her sister, so her mom thinks that OP should invite him.
6. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole for not allowing my sister’s boyfriend to come to my wedding, let’s see what users have to say.
7. OP’s sister asked about his boyfriend’s invitation and OP thought that her sister would not want him to come in the first place moreover, OP said their father doesn’t want him there as well. OP’s sister didn’t tell anyone about her boyfriend and she wants to use this event as an opportunity so everyone could know about him.
8. It’s OP’s wedding and she definitely has every right on whom to invite or not
9. This is hilarious by the way
10. Exactly, she got all the time in the world for making his boyfriend introduce to people but not at the wedding though.
11. What are your thoughts about this?
12. This could be an option
13. But OP really wants her sister to be there at the wedding not inviting him can cause her to not come at the wedding
14. It’s a point to be noted though
15. But it is kinda OP’s business as she is her sister
16. This user is right too, excluding their partner may cause both of them to not attend the wedding.
17. It is somehow true, shed your thoughts about this.
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