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In this story, OP is struggling with feelings of resentment and frustration due to a history of perceived favoritism from his parents toward her younger sister. This favoritism is evident through the financial support and advantages provided to the sister, such as paying for her education, gifting her property, and funding the construction of her new home. The OP, on the other hand, had to work her way through college and now faces significant student loan debt, which is impacting his ability to pursue her own life goals, like getting married and buying a house with her partner. The OP’s parents’ willingness to provide their sister with a luxurious lifestyle while the OP struggles with debt and financial stability has caused tension in the family.
She is also struggling with her family relationships, torn between a sense of gratitude for the support she received and the clear favoritism displayed towards her sister. Moreover, OP is conflicted about her role in supporting her sister during her pregnancy and in their relationship with their parents, who have given them an ultimatum regarding their stance on this matter.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end. Otherwise, you won’t be able to tell whether he’s an A-hole or not.
1. OP and her sister who is pregnant by her boyfriend’s friend have had a nonexistent relationship since OP went away to college moreover, OP said that there’s been a long history of favoritism for her from her parents. While OP had to take out loans to work her way through school her sister tried to go to school at their expense.
2. OP said whenever she talked about it her parents responded that her sister needs more help than OP because she is not independent and self-sufficient like OP
3. OP says that she’s upset due to her parents’ clear favoritism toward her sister
4. OP told the users that she gets paid decently but she has been struggling with a huge amount of student loans moreover, she said that she’s trying her best to get married and buy a house but she is bewildered as it will never happen due to her student loan.
5. OP’s sister has been living with her parents and she got pregnant by cheating on her boyfriend with his friend but still she got favoritism from her parents and they gifted two acres of property to her. And they even have started to help pay for the construction.
6. OP says this makes her angry because her sister is getting this new home from her parents while on the other hand, OP is struggling financially and she would have to work for the rest of her life to get a home that she’s getting for free.
7. When OP talked about this to her parents she was told that if she’s not going to be supportive of her sister then she doesn’t have to come back
8. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole for calling out her parents on their favoritism for giving her sister a free house
9. NTA
10. This user suggested OP not come back because she doesn’t need any of these people in her life moreover, this user even said OP is NTA.
11. What would you do ladies and gentlemen?
12. In situations like this there is a lot of probability that it could happen
13. Exactly, once they realize what they have done they will regret it and will want OP’s help one day.
14. For sure they have made themselves clear, it is gonna be a tough road for OP but all the wishes go her way.
15. Not even a single person said OP is an A-hole and that’s because OP is right!
16. One way or another anyone who is willing to help himself or herself gets what he or she wants and OP would obviously secure her goals and dreams
17. Might be a time to walk away
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