Groom Asks If He Should Call Off His Wedding Because His Fiance Doesn’t Want His Son To Bring His Boyfriend

A wedding is a special occasion.

Some may even argue that it is the most important event in someone’s life, so, understandably, people want it to be perfect. It is supposed to be about the two people who are planning their lives together for the foreseeable future. However, it is not just about the individuals; the two families usually gather at this event to exchange greetings. While this may sound ideal, when it comes to families, a variety of issues can arise. After all, everyone is unique and has different perspectives. As a result, ensuring that no one steps out of line can be a real pain.

Relationships and family dynamics can often present complex situations in today’s ever-changing world. One such quandary occurs when a man is torn between his upcoming wedding and his fiancé’s unwillingness to allow his son to bring his boyfriend. As society progresses towards greater inclusivity and understanding, it becomes increasingly important to navigate these situations with empathy and open-mindedness. It is critical for the man to have open and honest conversations with both his fiancée and his son in order to find a solution that respects everyone’s feelings while creating a supportive and inclusive environment for everyone involved. That would be the ideal solution, but nothing is ever that simple in reality.

You can see it for yourself if you scroll down.

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There is more to the story than meets the eye.

But we need to understand some background information first.

He clearly loves his Fiance and his child.

However, those two things are now at odds.

His Fiance didn’t want his son to bring his boyfriend to the wedding.

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OP is ofcourse not happy with this suggestion at all and doesn’t know what to do.

Most people aren’t on his side either so he ended up asking Reddit for help.

I completely understand having a conservative family and not wanting to cause problems at your wedding. However, the fiance must understand that this is not a one-day event. What about all subsequent interactions? Is it expected that everyone will lie? And wouldn’t the son be forced to conceal his identity from half of his family? I’m not sure about you, but that doesn’t seem like a feasible way to live a simple life.

So, while I’m hesitant to say he should call off the wedding because OP loves his wife, his son should be his top priority. And, given the difficulties that people in the LGBTQ+ community already face, this type of behaviour will only aggravate his son’s situation.

People in the comments however were completely on his side.

They commended his choice to stick up for his son.

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The only way he could be in the wrong is if he had listened to his Fiance.

Her perfect wedding is different from your perfect wedding.

As kids should always come first.

That is the real question here. How would she deal with that?

I don’t think she wants her family to know.

It is not just about her.

And it isn’t as if the son is doing anything wrong.

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This will most definitely cause issues down the line.

What are your thoughts on this conundrum? Do you think the OP is exaggerating everything and that there is nothing wrong with not having his son’s boyfriend at his wedding? Or do you believe he should prioritise his son? What would you do in such a situation? Have you ever encountered a problem like this before? Let us know in the comments, and don’t forget to share this story with your friends so they can join in with their own experiences.