Girlfriend Tells Her Boyfriend He Is Not Welcomed To Her House If He Keeps Forcing His Dog On Her

Everyone’s boundaries should be respected. No matter who you are, you have to respect what the other person says and requests, especially when the request is very understandable and backed by logic. In today’s story, we have a Reddit user 719dib28k who does not like dogs, especially untrained ones. And I respect that, I cannot hate on a person for not liking dogs just because I like dogs.

OP shared that their boyfriend got a dog in inheritance and he requested her if he could bring it with him every time he would come over. OP agreed on only one condition that he will not force the dog on her no matter what. The boyfriend told her not to worry about it but that is exactly what he kept doing. In many instances, he would intentionally ask his dog to go jump on OP. Until one day, OP snapped and told him the dog would never be allowed in the house if this happened again.

Being called an AH by her boyfriend for not being friendly, OP took the matter to the community members of AITA to know if she did the right thing or not by telling her boyfriend to stop bringing his dog to her home.

Scroll down below to read how it all went down.

1. OP is not a fan of untrained dogs or of people who do not train their dogs.

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2. And OP’s boyfriend just inherited a dog but she doesn’t have a problem with it because they don’t have any plans to move in together.

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3. The boyfriend requested OP if she could bring the dog with him every time he would come over. She agreed but on one condition that he won’t force the dog in her face and that is exactly what happened. The dog annoyed the living hell out of OP.

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4. The episodes kept happening and OP finally snapped and told her boyfriend she will not allow the dog into her house if this behavior of the dog continued..The boyfriend called her an AH.

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5. OP posted an update and it makes a lot of sense. Having boundaries around her is absolutely her choice.

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6. It’s weird that people are defending the dog and OP has to answer too many questions like this one to justify her side.

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Here are some of the comments shared on the post:

7. You shouldn’t have any place in your life for those who break your boundaries.

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8. Despite telling her boyfriend all her reasons, he still didn’t respect any of them.

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9. Even dog lovers said the boyfriend was an AH in this story.

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OP was NTA. It was very noticeable that the boyfriend was doing it all intentionally. He would purposefully tell the dog to go jump on OP when she clearly told him she doesn’t want any of that. Clearly, he has no respect for her boundaries.

OP should really reconsider this relationship as I don’t think the dog is the real problem, it’s her boyfriend. He does not want to listen to OP and he would be totally responsible if OP chooses to either ban the dog or break up with him.

10. The boyfriend really was exhibiting immature behavior.

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11. It’s about the boyfriend and OP shouldn’t continue a relationship with someone who doesn’t respect her.

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12. It still is, I don’t know what world this boyfriend is living in.

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13. The dog should have never been allowed in the first place.

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14. Ban the dog and then dump the man.

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15. Everyone was very clear about who the center of this issue was.

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16. Not ideal at all.

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17. He absolutely is!

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18. Dog people often get blinded.

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