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When you are married, it is important to consider each other’s opinions while taking big decisions.
Relationships often end because one partner does not give respect to the other person. These are the little things that matter in a relationship. A husband shared on Reddit that he is married to a woman of three kids. They have planned to buy a house so they decided to get a 4-bedroom house that would be big enough for the kids and the pets. But OP found a 3-bedroom house at a lesser price and talked to his wife that he is planning to get this house. OP’s wife was not happy with his decision and told him that the house cannot accommodate everyone. But OP has refused to change his decision. Scroll down for the complete story.
1. OP and her wife started the home-searching process three months back. OP wanted a house that would be big enough for 5 people and the pets.
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2. OP and his wife decided to get a 4-bedroom house but OP found a 3-bedroom house and he thought that the girls could share a room. This house was less than the market value.
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3. OP’s wife does not want her kids to share a room because she thinks they deserve their own space. OP thinks that he can build an extra room in the future.
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4. OP talked to his wife and she told him that he is putting her in a bad spot. But OP is dead set on this house.
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5. OP’s wife works full-time and over-time. She owns her own real estate business and makes more money than OP.
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6. OP has the opportunity to buy a 4-bedroom house right now. He should take the right decision right now.
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Buying a new home is a big decision and both partners have a right to keep their opinion. OP is only considering what he likes and he is not considering his partner’s choice which is wrong and may cause issues in their relationship. OP’s wife is a real estate agent and it would be nicer to consider her opinion. Scroll down for comments on the post.
7. OP’s wife has the right to not put her money into something she does not want.
8. OP is married and he cannot take the decision alone.
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9. OP’s step-kids will be teens soon and they would not be comfortable sharing bedrooms.
10. OP is valuing his opinion over his wife’s opinion.
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11. OP should get a house that accommodates everyone.
12. The house is great for OP but it is not great for his family.
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Do you think it is a wise decision to get a 3-bedroom house? Share your opinion in the comment section down below!!
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