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Before you invite your family over, make sure to ask or discuss it with your wife.
Having a family over for a Christmas celebration sounds fun, right? But when you have a full-time job, a toddler to take care of and are 6-month pregnant, a family over is something you can not afford to have. Today, we have a story of a woman whose husband invited almost 26 family members for a 5-day Christmas celebration and her husband didn’t even ask her once. When she got to know about it, not only she was disgusted by it, she also texted everyone and canceled the invitation. Scroll down to read the details of the story.
They say communication is the key, Well, they have said it right. Talk to your partner before taking any important decision if you wish to skip the family drama.
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So, here is how the drama started when the husband invited over his huge family for a 5-day Christmas celebration without telling or asking her about it.
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26 family members for a 5-day long Christmas celebration. Bro, are you out of your mind?
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He didn’t even bother to inform her and she found out about it by accident.
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He should’ve asked her first.
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So, that’s how WE will manage?
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Look at how big his pride is.
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Oh, you made him look small.
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How toxic do you have to be to ask your wife for a handwritten apology?
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MIL needs to consider how out of line his son is for disrespecting his wife and not asking her before inviting everyone.
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Responsibilities need to be divided.
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No wonder, Christmas is the most exciting time of the year but family conflicts and arguments can ruin it. If you are the head of the family and you have to take care of the family and have to take all the family decisions but that doesn’t mean you don’t discuss it with your wife who has to do all the preparations. How can you invite over 26 people for a 5-day long Christmas celebration knowing that your wife is 6-month pregnant and takes care of the house, your 2-year old child, has a full-time job and now you are surprising her with the extra load of work? Putting a burden of responsibilities on your wife’s shoulders and getting offended when she refuses to do it for you. It is ridiculous.
A written apology? That’s repulsive and disrespectful.
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An apology that he truly deserves.
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NTA if he manages to do everything instead of expecting it from you.
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Do yourself a favor and leave him for the love of God.
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You are NTA but your husband is AH.
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Talk about the marriage expectations before you decide to marry someone so you don’t get to deal with all of this.
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It’s your family, you entertain them.
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Girl, throw away the whole man.
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Handwritten apology or handwritten divorce?
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So, is it right that the wife does all the house jobs, a full-time job and takes care of everything while the husband just sits because he is the head of the family? What do you guys think? Is she the AH for canceling all the invitations and refusing to apologize in writing? Comment down below and let us know what do you think about it? AITA or NTA?