Hussain
In this story, a man of Samoan descent finds himself confronted by the ugly reality of racism within his wife’s family. Their relationship had progressed to the point of marriage, but upon meeting his wife’s parents, he encountered an unwelcoming atmosphere characterized by disdainful looks and derogatory comments. The father-in-law, in particular, made offensive remarks about the man’s career choice and made it clear that he held prejudiced views.
Despite these difficulties, the man’s sister-in-law emerged as a beacon of support and empathy. She was consistently friendly and apologetic for her parents’ behavior, being the sole member of the wife’s family to attend the couple’s wedding. However, tensions reached a new height when she decided not to invite the man and his son to her wedding due to her father’s disapproval, leaving the wife facing a difficult choice between supporting her sister and standing up for her husband and son.
Keep on scrolling down below to see the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end. Otherwise, you won’t be able to decide whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP told us that he didn’t have to post this if her wife’s family weren’t racist, keep on scrolling let’s find out what really happened.
2. When OP’s wife took him to her parent’s house OP was quite excited but when he got there, the tables turned and he was shocked to find out the way her parents were reacting.
3. OP snapped at her wife’s dad when he said it makes sense that “someone like you” wouldn’t want to go to college, he was being totally disrespectful and racist towards OP.
4. OP said the only person who treated him fairly was his sister-in-law, and she even apologized to OP for the rudeness of her parents. Moreover, she was the only one from OP’s wife’s family to show up at their wedding.
5. A week ago OP’s SIL told his wife that she won’t be inviting OP or his son to her wedding and that is because she doesn’t want any problems to happen
6. Now OP wants to know whether he’s an A-hole for thinking that his wife shouldn’t go to the wedding
7. This user suggested to OP that they should all stay at home and that they need to show them that they are united
8. Well this suggestion is a bit intense, what do you think?
9. This user made a solid point
10. She should have invited them together, she should have broken the stereotype.
11. In this case I think the wife should have been united with her husband
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13. Almost everyone is on OP’s side and they think he is NTA
14. OP is not an A-hole we are looking for
15. Even if the sister-in-law treated OP differently in the past now she’s treating him the same
16. A lot of users thought that OP should have moved on to someone with a family that respected OP
17. It’s time that OP and his wife stand up together and she needs to realize that it is so wrong and racist
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