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In this story, a man’s wife recently confessed that she had cheated on him almost a decade before their marriage began. This revelation came as a shock to the man, who then questioned the paternity of their child. The stress and emotional turmoil that followed led to the tragic loss of their unborn baby. Faced with shattered trust and the uncertainty of whether their love was genuine or guilt-driven, the man is contemplating divorce. Both the man and his wife are financially stable, with separate finances and no shared assets, making the divorce process relatively straightforward. However, while the man is eager to pursue a clean break, his wife is determined to salvage their relationship, despite his lack of trust and desire to end the marriage.
In this complex situation, the man grapples with his love for his wife but cannot regain the trust he once had. He wants to convince her that divorce is the best solution, but she is unwilling to listen.
Keep scrolling down below to know what happened next and read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end.
1. OP’s wife told him that she cheated on him a decade ago when they weren’t in a marriage
2. When OP’s wife told him about the incident she was two months pregnant and due to this OP did not trust the paternity of the child saying, he didn’t believe it was only the first time she cheated. Due to this, she had an episode of stress which made her lose the baby.
3. Now OP wants a divorce and the reason for the divorce is that he does not believe that it was the only time she cheated on OP
4. OP said that they both are in good physical shape and are financially stable and if they both get a divorce they can start from zero without any problems, but OP’s wife is determined to continue the relationship and OP is not.
5. OP tried convincing her of the divorce but she won’t listen and now OP doesn’t know how to convince her of the divorce
6. OP said that in their country an agreement of divorce takes less than a month if both parties are interested in finishing the marriage
7. Now OP wants to know how can he convince her wife for a divorce
8. This user suggested OP be steadfast and work with his lawyers to remove the barriers
9. Once trust is broken it’s tough to mend it
10. This user just wanted OP to know that he was not responsible for the pregnancy loss
11. The best OP could do is make her sit and tell her clearly that he wants a divorce and it can’t work for him no more
12. This user was concerned that OP’s main concern was cheating whereas she had a miscarriage and this user finds it inappropriate, what do you think?
13. It’s better to deal with it now than deal with it later because these types of things just get complicated over time, OP needs legal advice.
14. This user suggested to OP that he should give her a minute to process the loss
15. While this user wanted OP to get a lawyer
16. Piece of advice for OP!
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