Hussain
In this story, OP is a 28-year-old individual, who had purchased a computer for study purposes a few months ago. However, two years prior, OP’s sister had accidentally spilled tea on their previous computer, causing damage. The sister never apologized, admitted to the accident, or offered to contribute towards the replacement. OP believes that their mother doesn’t believe their account of the incident, which has caused unresolved tension. Due to this experience, OP has become extremely possessive and protective of her new computer, fearing it might get damaged again. This led to a recent confrontation when OP’s sister threw ice cream wrapping on the computer to provoke her, resulting in an emotional outburst from OP. The mother intervened and labeled both siblings as “animals,” leading to a heated exchange where the narrator expressed their frustration about their sister’s actions and their mother’s previous lack of support.
So keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end. Otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP here is an A-hole or not.
1. OP bought a computer a few months ago and her sister spilled tea all over it she never apologized for it and never even admitted it moreover, OP’s mother doesn’t even believe what happened that night.
2. OP has become possessive over her new computer because she’s scared that it’ll get broken again, but the other day OP’s sister threw an ice cream wrapper on it just to provoke her
3. OP was crying and screaming and frustrated saying everyone to stay away from the computer meanwhile, OP’s mother told both of them to shut up and even called them animals.
4. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not
5. This user is right, they are grown adults they don’t need to go to their mother and ask to scold the other sibling.
6. This user was curious to know that are they really adults because they were acting in a weird childish way
7. Seems like there’s a lot other than computer going on here
8. Well, the user is right. Anyone can get mad when someone is willingly trying to ruin your property. OP needs to see a family counselor.
9. This user suggested OP find an alternative living situation because the environment in which OP is living is not healthy according to this user
10. OP should consider this piece of advice
11. OP is NTA but her sister sure is
12. Actually some of the things this user is saying are correct, they both surely are acting like toddlers dragging their mom into petty conflicts.
13. NTA
14. I agree with this user, what do you think?
15. This user suggested OP get away from her sister and mother
16. I assume the whole family is exhausted
17. Moving out would be a reasonable option for OP
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