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Not all moms are the same. Many of them do not want their kids to be like what society perceives as ‘good kids.’ Because that definition of good kids is not always right. Many mothers around the world have to teach their children to share their things even when the other child’s behavior is inappropriate. I mean, why ask your humble kid to share their things with desperate children who can not even wait for their turn? Teaching the opposite kid to wait would be the right thing to do at that time. Yet, due to societal pressure, many of us do not do so. Many mothers come under pressure from other parents thinking that they did not raise their child well. If a child does not share things with literally every kid that comes, he is considered rude or evil, and this is what mothers are concerned about. But not every mother is the same. Considering this, we are going to share the story of a mom who does to want to force her son to share his toys with other kids, or anything like a toy. She narrates her thinking as follows. Scroll down till the end to understand why and how this mother thinks differently.
1. The boys came to have Carson’s toys and his mother simply asked him to say no
2. Carson said no, the other parents were outrageous but the mother explains the thing so well
3. The strangers asking someone to give their things to them are lacking more manners by making him uncomfortable other than the boy who simply refused. Teaching your children to act like adults is what we all should do, explains the mother
4. “We don’t live in a world where it’s conducive to give everything up you have anyone to just because they said so.”
5. The mother is of the view that children should share things with people they trust and have the desire to share with. Here’s Carson sharing his toy with the mother’s friend’s daughter
This was the story and I could not agree more with the mother. Her views are quite logical and rational. Scroll down to read what other people had to say about the story.
6. This man is right on point, sharing does not work one-way, it has to come from both sides.
7. I wish we all had teachers like her; realist and unbiased.
via Ariana
So, what do you guys think about the way this mother is raising her child? I think it’s a great way to teach your children how they can say no to this cruel world. Labels from strangers aren’t true. It is you who knows your child and you should not care about what anyone says. The comfortability of your child is what comes first. Share your feedback in the comment section. Stay tuned for more interesting content.