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In this situation, OP (32M) finds himself in a dilemma when his sister (25F) and her boyfriend decide to organize a meeting between their families during the Christmas break. Despite the event not being on Christmas Day itself and the presence of the man’s girlfriend (30F) not likely to overshadow the gathering, his sister insists on excluding the girlfriend from the dinner. Uncomfortable with the idea of asking his girlfriend to leave for the evening, the man stands firm, suggesting that either his girlfriend be included in the dinner or the meeting proceed without him.
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1. OP has been dating his girlfriend for 3 months and they discussed spending Christmas together moreover, the problem is that OP’s sister and her boyfriend decided that Christmas time would be the respective time to meet family.
2. The problem is OP’s sister doesn’t want OP’s girlfriend to be at the dinner which is going to be before Christmas
3. OP said it would be absurd to invite her girlfriend to come with him to meet his parents and ask her to leave for an evening
4. Now OP wants to know whether he’s an A-hole for standing his ground and that either his girlfriend would be part of the dinner or they would have to proceed without them.
5. NTA
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7. An advice for OP, what do you think ladies and gentlemen?
8. Well, they have also been dating for a very short time. But the thing is OP was the first one to ask his parents.
9. Well it depends on the folks who they want to accommodate for the family dinner
10. Exactly, that’s my point too. Sister here is the one who’s making all the mess.
11. Here OP made it clear that for how long her sister and her boyfriend have been dating
12. Point to be noted!
13. This user is speaking facts, I mean yeah she is worried about OP hogging her limelight.
14. No single person said OP is an A-hole and we know why!
15. Well this reply could be answered by OP only but the user below gave a perfect answer
16. Seems like the sister has a dominant and charging personality!
17. OP is NTA, change my mind if you can I bet you can’t!
18. It’s no big deal, well the matter is OP’s sister is worried that his girlfriend might steal the spotlight.
19. Stick to your ground OP!
20. Thoughts on this?
21. This user is giving ultra wisdom to OP!
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