Woman Calls Off Her Wedding After Her Fiance Cancelled Vegan Options From The Menu

In the previous and actual story, a soon-to-be-married couple disagrees over the inclusion of vegan food options at their wedding. The poster, who is vegan and has health reasons for following the lifestyle, wants to provide 4-5 vegan choices. However, their fiance and future mother-in-law object, considering it a waste of money and not “real food.” They argue that it would offend their guests and suggest offering basic salads instead. OP refuses, asserting that they want their guests to feel welcome. To her dismay, they discover that their fiance secretly removed all the vegan options from the menu without their consent. Enraged, OP confronts their fiance at work, leading to a heated argument at home. The fiance justifies his actions by claiming that OP dismissed their opinions and failed to accommodate his family. OP remains adamant and refuses to let go of the issue, despite their family’s willingness to find a solution.

In the update, OP explains that the conversation didn’t go well. OP noticed a pattern of their fiance prioritizing his family’s opinions over theirs. Their fiance argued that his family loves food and shouldn’t feel excluded. OP felt upset that their partner disregarded their opinions and decided to end the relationship. She realized they couldn’t live with someone who didn’t respect their decisions. It was her first serious relationship, and she didn’t know what to expect, but she felt like she was constantly being undermined. In the end, she chose to prioritize her own happiness and the happiness of their family. Scroll down to read in detail.

The conversation between OP and her fiance did not go well.

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OP’s fiance thought it was not a big deal to not to include vegan options and that made OP realize her decisions don’t matter to him.

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OP would make a compromise but it was not just about the food now.

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OP called off the wedding and OP’s partner thinks she chose her family over him.

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Update on the story.

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Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Almost all Redditors think OP did a good job by calling it off and the fiance could have been more understanding. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article too.

Why was it such a big deal to include vegan options?

Entire story simply put.

They would have offered meat and the vegan dishes would not hurt them.

Why would the fiance not care about her likeness?

People are unbelievable.

People are commending OP to call off the marriage.

The fiance had double standards where he only wanted his opinion to be valued.

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