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Woman Decides Not To Go On Family Vacation Because She Can’t Bring Her ESA Dog

Having a well-trained service dog can be very helpful for people who struggle with anxiety. An anxiety service dog can calm the person, anticipate anxiety attacks, and even bring the owner’s prescription. Not only that, but anxiety service dogs may spot the early signs of an anxiety attack before it ever happens. During a panic attack, they can get supplies of water or medication and bring them to the worried person. Among other things, these dogs can discourage spectators from approaching a distraught person. Consequently, it makes perfect sense that the OP in today’s article objected to taking a family trip without her ESA.

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The OP has been discussing the best way to deal with her extremely high levels of anxiety, PTSD, and depression with her therapist. The problem is that her family began taking yearly beach trips approximately twenty years ago, and eventually their husbands and children joined in. The OP had previously tried to invite herself, but there was always a reason why it couldn’t work out. As a result, she gave up trying, and her family also declined to invite her. She made the choice to avoid her family for the benefit of her mental well-being. Her dad then extended an invitation to join them on a different trip, but there was a problem: the OP was unable to bring her ESA. Scroll down to read the complete narrative.

1. OP is giving us the bottom line of the story here

The OP starts:
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2. The OP once tried to arrange a lunch because I was travelling through the same location at the time.

The OP once attempted to set up a lunch since I was passing through the same area
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3. Instead of feeling left out, the OP chose to concentrate on doing something enjoyable for themselves.

The OP decided to focus on doing something fun myself rather than feeling left out
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4. The OP needed to spend some time apart from the family because they were hurt.

The OP was hurt and needed to take some time away from the family
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5. The OP stated once more that the home was not dog friendly.

The OP reiterated that the house wasn't dog friendly
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6. The OP’s buddy said that I was being unfairly judged by her.

The OP's friend said she was being too hard on my family
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Here are what Redditors had to say about this story.

7. They’re not nice people, so keep your boundaries.

Keep your boundaries because they're not nice people
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8. It is advised to OP to stay on the right path

You should stay on that path
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9. They can’t relax around you

They can't relax around you
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10. It feels really crappy to be left out

It feels really crappy to be left out
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11. Build meaningful new relationships

Build meaningful new relationships
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12. You have the ESA dog because of them.

They are the reason you have the ESA dog
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13. Puppy must go on a holiday

Take your puppy on a fun vacation
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14. Dealing only with the great elements at this time.

Dealing with only the wonderful parts at this point
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15. This Redditor is glad that OP sought therapy

This Redditor is glad the OP sought therapy
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16. Get-togethers are planned like this

What we had planned for our get togethers
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17. Mental health isn’t a comfy issue for the OP’s family

Mental health isn't a comfy topic for the OP's family
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18. The OP is somewhat unique compared to the rest of the family.

The OP is a little different from the rest of the family
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19.  Can we say that this is the reason as they all have kids?

It's maybe because they all have kids
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20. This way, a new tradition should be started

You should consider starting a new tradition
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What is your take on the story? Do you agree with the behavior that OP showed? What would you do if you were in her situation? What is your opinion on who is at fault here? Do share your opinion with us. If you want to read more such articles on our website, keep visiting us!

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Hope he made you all smile.

via r/doggos

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