When you begin a relationship, there’s always a part of you that worries about the most insignificant things:
Will I get along with their family? Is the dog going to like me? Do they both believe in eating breakfast foods for dinner? Whatever it is, chances are you have experienced having your honeymoon stage derailed by a worried mind. It’s never easy you have to think deeply about so many things before doing a commitment.
Things pass, and you grow comfortable and confident in your significant other – but there’s one big deal breaker that most people avoid: meeting each other’s friends.
It’s common knowledge that your friends have a lot of sway over who you share your precious life with, and most people approach first-time meetings with extreme caution. After all, who wants to make a bad impression on people who know your partner better than their mother? So buckle up guys this Redditor has a story to tell. Keep on scrolling down below and make sure you watch it till the end.
1. Let’s see what happened
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2. I hope it’s not going where I am thinking it is going
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3. I think it’s the perfect introduction one can give
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4. We do jobs we hate, to buy things we don’t need.
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5. Come on man it’s a party, leave the work at the office, please.
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6. Conversations that shouldn’t have come up
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7. No you don’t OP, one should have a rich heart instead.
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8. Not five fingers are equal so you can’t judge anyone
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9. He shouldn’t have said that, if he gets so inappropriate he better not get high.
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10. Actually all of them are stupid
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11. She needed to clear herself that she ain’t a gold digger and it’s not such a big deal to tell those stupid people that she earns twice
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12. This is too accurate and hilarious at the same time
Naturally, the bizarre accusations irritated her, so she asked the men why they would say such a thing when she earns twice as much as her boyfriend.
Everyone became very quiet, as expected, but the woman persisted and stated that there was no gold to be found – not from him or anyone else at the party. The boyfriend wanted to leave soon after, upset that his friends now knew he was making far less than the OP – but the woman said she’d have held her tongue if he’d stood up for her in the first place.
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13. No you aren’t an A-hole for telling them that you earn twice than he does
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Here’s what fellow Redditors had to say about this story
14. Somebody speaking facts here
15. Just enjoy your life let them bark
16. Do you also think $68k can get you all that?
17. Time for an upgrade maybe even a hardware upgrade, this commentator got some serious humor
18. Point to be noted here
19. NTA
20. Always choose people who aren’t judgemental
21. Everyone’s on the OP side
22. Apparently OP is not an A-hole here
23. The boyfriend should have stood up for her period
24. A man is known by the company he keeps
25. Seriously?
26. You can’t be an offender when you are defending yourself
27. Such a cool advice
The man described it as humiliating and embarrassing, while the woman is irritated that she had to say anything at all, given that it was supposed to be his job to put them in their place. The boyfriend should have stood up for her in the first place and stopped those idiot friends of his to stop insulting her. Even though he was wrong at all times he still complained that she made her feel awkward. That’s a big red flag here.
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