Choosing Beggar Guy And His Girlfriend Take A Vacation At His Brother’s House

Keeping the peace between siblings is difficult.

It is very common for siblings to compete with one another. And as long as it doesn’t go too far, there’s nothing wrong with it. Parents will always claim that they do not have a favourite child, but this is rarely true. It is acceptable to have a ‘favourite’ child as long as you do not treat your other children differently and ensure that everyone receives equal treatment. This can lead to long-term issues between siblings as they grow up if they believe their sibling received preferential treatment.

And, while it is okay to spoil your child and make sure they have everything they require. Parents must also draw a line so that their children do not become spoiled brats who believe they can get away with anything. This is a surefire way to end up with an entitled adult as your child. That is unmistakably what is happening in this story. The poster of this story’s brother thought he could have a free mini-vacation at the OP’s house. He saw nothing wrong with putting such a burden on his brother, even though he was aware of OP’s financial difficulties.

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This story is going to be longer than expected so strap in.

We start off with getting information on how his father treated him.

And how different it was from how his brother was treated.

So he was quite shocked when his brother asked to meet up.

He wanted to come to OP’s house and meet his nephew.

OP was initially excited about this visit.

But things soon started to go downhill.

As they were just making a mess.

Not only that but they were also okay with ordering food and making OP pay for everything.

This wasn’t feasible for OP but they didn’t listen to him.

Now things are starting to frustrate OP.

But he tried to keep the peace as much as possible.

What was going to be one night ended up being four days.

And in those four days, their house was turned upside down.

So OP decided to tell them that they needed to leave.

OP even explained everything to his Father.

After this situation, they drifted even further from each other.

Since then OP has kept his distance so as not to have a repeat of what happened before.

I’m disgusted by how the brother and his girlfriend acted while wining and dining on the OP’s dime. It’s not like they were unaware that OP was struggling. After all, OP was quite clear. And if the brother had truly wanted to meet his brother and nephew, one day would have sufficed. You’d think that being a gracious guest would be common knowledge, but apparently entitled people don’t know this simple fact. I wouldn’t talk to my brother if he behaved like this and purposefully put me in a bad financial situation.

People in the comments were quite sympathetic to OP’s plight.

I wouldn’t have been able to handle this kind of situation.

This is why it is necessary to draw a line and say no sometimes.

What are your thoughts on the entire situation? Has your sibling ever acted in this manner? If so, is it due to your parents’ influence or something else? Let us know in the comments section below, as we are always interested in hearing new stories. Don’t forget to share this article with your friends so they can share their own experiences.