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In this story, OP (49M) faces a dilemma involving his two daughters from a previous marriage. While the oldest daughter is attending a university near her mother, with financial support from scholarships and her mom, the youngest daughter expresses a desire to spend her senior year with OP and his wife to qualify for in-state tuition at a school close to them. Despite concerns about limited space and potential challenges for the youngest daughter, OP discusses the matter with his wife and eventually conveys that they cannot accommodate her. As a result, the youngest daughter decides to attend a college across the country, raising concerns for OP about the distance between them.
So keep scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP and make sure to read it till the end.
1. OP has two daughters and OP and her wife are divorced and they don’t live in the same state moreover, OP’s oldest daughter goes to a private university near her home and it is paid for by scholarships. OP’s younger daughter was looking at schools she fell in with a school which is located in OP’s backyard so she asked OP if she could live with them.
2. OP and her wife live in a two-bedroom condo and her wife uses one room as her office moreover, they have two dogs so OP told her that he doesn’t think it will be comfortable for her as they don’t have enough space. Let’s see how his daughter reacted.
3. Now OP wants to know whether he’s an A-hole for rejecting her request, let’s see what Redditors have to say about this.
4. This user said OP is an A-hole and now he’s upset because she’s going across the country
5. This user said OP is a hundred percent A-hole for rejecting her daughter to live, what are your thoughts about this?
6. Exactly, well it’s right OP made it clear that she cannot live with him.
7. It’s gonna be a lot of tough replies to OP from the users
8. Well, she’s doing the same and OP shouldn’t be shocked by her reaction.
9. And this is why this happens take notes ladies and gentlemen!
10. We all hope she has a good time over there!
11. Well OP has to go and take this with a pinch of salt, this user is speaking facts!
12. Not even a single person said OP isn’t the A-hole we are looking for but sadly that’s not true in this case
13. What are your thoughts on this?
14. Well OP should have helped her as it was her dream school, she should have been happy for eternity.
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15. He should have gotten a place for her
16. Exactly, this user is right!
17. Daughters need their dads as much as their moms too!
18. Of course YTA
19. Parents always have enough space for their kids but OP was confused or I don’t know what he was thinking
20. OP should have also been contributing and if he had done this it would have been enough
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