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Welcome to a heartfelt exploration of family dynamics and the challenges faced by OP, a parent striving to balance expectations, responsibilities, and the complex journey of their oldest daughter. Join us as we delve into the intricacies of communication, compassion, and the pursuit of personal growth within the context of a loving but struggling family.
OP’s oldest daughter finds herself juggling various commitments, from school and work to personal interests. However, her ability to fulfill family responsibilities has been inconsistent, leading to tension and frustration within the household. Explore the expectations placed on each family member and the need for open dialogue to address the challenges.
The family’s plans for a much-anticipated vacation become a turning point in OP’s perception of their oldest daughter’s contributions. As tensions rise, decisions are made that may significantly impact the family dynamics and the young adult’s role within the household.
The family’s plans for a much-anticipated vacation become a turning point in OP’s perception of their oldest daughter’s contributions. As tensions rise, decisions are made that may significantly impact the family dynamics and the young adult’s role within the household.
Keep on scrolling down to read the full story in OP’s own words and we will see you at the end of the article.
1. Is OP an A-hole for not paying for her daughter to go on vacation with them? Keep on scrolling down to find out.
2. OP and her husband have 5 kids together 4 of them being girls and 1 boy
3. OP’s oldest was in school full time but this semester she went from 14 credits to 6!
4. OP tells us that she and her family haven’t been on a family vacation for years so this year they all are going all out!
5. OP says that they have been having a hard time with their oldest daughter over the past few years
6. The OP had to ask her 75-year-old neighbor to pick the kids up
7. OP also tells us that she does not pay for anything
8. She’s furious and said that it’s hard for her to do these things because of her ADHD. Do you think OP is A-hole?
9. Exactly it’s time for her to grow up and take on responsibility!
10. “there are consequences for her actions”
11. This Redditor asked OP if her daughter is being medicated for her ADHD
12. OP tells the Redditor that her daughter used to be medicated but then her daughter decided sometime last year that she was going to treat it naturally!
13. Exactly she can’t be using ADHD as an excuse
14. This Redditor is curious to know how long it’s been since OP’s daughter have been diagnosed with ADHD
15. OP tells him that she was diagnosed 12 years ago!
16. If OP hasn’t sat down with her she definitely should
17. “Time to learn how the world works.”
18. Couldn’t agree more
19. This Redditor says that warning her may have been more effective
20. OP most definitely shouldn’t leave their dog with her!
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