Girlfriend Breakups With Boyfriend Who Expected Her To Pick Up His Dog’s Poop During Walks

We often celebrate the joys of being a pet owner—the tricks our dog learns, the antics of our cat, and the sheer happiness they bring. But the reality of pet care isn’t always glamorous. Animals can be messy, and it falls on us to keep their environment clean. Beyond the adorable moments are the less charming aspects like dealing with stinky farts, wiping away eye boogers, and the perpetual task of scooping poop.

What if you never wanted a pet in the first place, but your partner insists you share in the responsibility? Would you comply, especially if it strains your relationship? This dilemma confronted Reddit user u/AITA_dogpoop, a young woman in her relationship with Carl. Despite not initially being keen on pets, she grew fond of Carl’s dog and even considered getting one herself.

Their daily routine included walking the dog together, but when Carl asked OP to pick up the poop, she brushed it off as a joke. His serious reaction left her questioning her role in their relationship dynamics.

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Source: u/AITA_dogpoop

1. The responsibilities of a pet animal pertain to its owner. That’s how it has traditionally worked.

2. OP has a boyfriend, Carl, who has dog the two often walk, and it has made OP want to get a dog as well.

3. After OP lost her job, she got to spend more time with Carl and the two would walk the dog every day. One day the dog pooped and the boyfriend asked OP to pick it up.

4. OP joked saying it is his dog and so he should pick its poop up. The boyfriend did not take that well as he started berating OP on the spot.

5. The couple got to a point of breaking their relationship over picking up dog poop. OP knocked on the doors of the AITA community for advice.

Source: u/AITA_dogpoop

Here’s what the internet thought about this:

6. What OP gave her boyfriend was nothing but a perfect response.

Via Encartrus

7. The poop came out of his dog so he should be the one dealing with it.

Via MysticYoYo

8. If OP wasn’t in the picture he would’ve had to pick it up himself so why not now?

Via Mamertine

9. If the situation has come up to a breakup, then do it.

Via ImpeccablyDressed

10. His dog, his responsibility.

Via Apprehensive_Poem580

This screams reg flag. Rightfully said by one comment, what if OP wasn’t in the scenario? He would’ve had to pick the poop up himself. So why does he want someone else to do it for him now? It is gross. I will not do it for anyone. As a dog owner, I will be fully responsible for what my dog does but never for what someone else’s dog does.