Woman Asks If She Is Wrong For Moving Out After Her Roommate Insults Her

You can be your true self on the internet.

Anyone who understands how the Internet works is aware that many people hide behind the mask of anonymity and can be quite cruel. Of course, it isn’t always bad. After all, anonymity has enabled many people to be their true selves with their online friends in a way that they cannot be with people they know in real life. However, if you use Discord in the wrong way, it can be quite toxic. If you’ve seen early 2000s films about high school cliques, you’ll understand that the same thing happens nowadays, but it’s all online.

People who enjoy gossiping about others behind their backs now do so online. That is exactly what is happening in this story. Don’t get me wrong: there’s nothing wrong with discussing your problems or disagreements with your flatmate with friends on the Internet. It becomes more complicated, however, when your flatmate is friends with the same people. Even if you make them swear not to tell her what you said, things have a way of spreading on the internet, which is exactly what happened in this case.

You can find out what happened next by scrolling down.

Source: Reddit

She isn’t moving out without a reason.

In her own words, she doesn’t seem like an annoying person to live with.

Things started coming to a head when it was revealed that he was talking behind her back.

The fact that he was so public about it is what rubbed OP the wrong way.

So she has decided to move out of the house.

But things haven’t been easy.

As he seems hellbent on annoying her.

To be honest, the flatmate sounds like an a-hole, and I don’t say that lightly. While we don’t know his side of the story, and she may have done something that irritated him, airing their dirty laundry in front of people who know both of them is not the way to handle the situation. If he had just told her about his problems with her, I would have agreed with him. Not only that but after she decided to leave, he continued to do as he pleased, putting her in a precarious position. All I can say is that it’s a good thing she’s leaving because he doesn’t seem like a nice guy.

People in the comments were quick to side with her.

While others shared their own experiences.

It is good that she is moving out.

We don’t know his side to be fair.

Even if we could see his side, I don’t think it would paint him in a much better light.

If he wanted her out, he could have talked with her.

Rather he acted like a child and went behind her back.

That is never okay.

What are your thoughts on the matter? Do you believe she is withholding information to make herself look better? Or do you believe she is correct? What would you do in such a situation? Let us know in the comments, and don’t forget to share this story with your friends so they can share their own experiences.