Arsalan Sajid
OP made homemade cheesy potato soup with broccoli for herself and shared it with her roommate Kris and boyfriend Kyle. Kyle loathed the broccoli and said it in front of her twice. OP did not like his remarks about her soup and forbade him from eating it. Kris requested that OP make the soup without broccoli the next time because Kyle disliked it. OP stated that it was not her problem and that she was unconcerned about Kyle’s choices. Kris asked OP to be more accommodating to Kyle, but OP refused because she had nothing to do with Kris’ relationship. OP feels Kyle cannot make food demands in a place where he doesn’t live, and if he needed something, then his girlfriend should make it for him, not OP.
If you want to know if OP is an A-hole or not, you’ll have to read the complete narrative that she narrates, so keep scrolling down below.
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1. OP asks whether she’s an A-hole for saying you don’t have to eat it, Let’s dive deeper into the case to know what really happened here.
2. OP made homemade cheesy potato soup with broccoli and brought it to her roommate Kris. Her roommate’s boyfriend, Kyle joined them, but Kyle said he did not like it. Kyle is snobbish and defensive, according to OP.
3. OP was upset with Kyle’s remarks about her soup and refused her roommate’s request to make it next time without broccoli in front of her boyfriend. OP also told her to cook herself for him, which irritated her roommate.
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4. Kris criticizes OP for behaving unmannerly in front of her boyfriend but OP did not want to accommodate Kyle for her.
Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.
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5. Redditor states that the entitlement is staggering.
6. Indeed! it was not OP’s problem to accommodate him.
7. Yes, they were not in the soup shop to order according to his liking.
8. Redditor criticizes Kyle for creating an issue by siding with her boyfriend.
9. Redditor disapproves Kyle’s objection as OP had made the soup for herself with the ingredients she liked.
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10. Yes, OP had offering them to share what she made for herself.
11. Redditor appreciates OP’s way of dealing with them.
12. Need to order then!
13. Certainly! OP would not offer them anything in future.
14. Redditor advises not to share her food with them the next time.
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15. According to Redditor, Kyle and her boyfriend can choose to have the soup or not, but they cannot dictate to OP to make it as per their choice.
16. Redditor states that Kyle’s boyfriend telling them twice about not liking broccoli to make a new soup for him is unreasonable.
17. Yes, it was irrational of OP’s roommate to expect such a thing.
18. That is savage.
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19. Yes, they should be!
20. Redditor believes that the way they responded to each other was a bit unmannerly.
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Op had not prepared the soup for Kris and her boyfriend; rather, she had merely politely asked if they would want some, so Kyle had no right to critique it in front of her. He shouldn’t have told her if he didn’t enjoy broccoli because she became upset and reacted badly to her roommate’s request. They need to understand that they weren’t at some kind of hotel where they could choose the ingredients they wanted and dislike the ones that were served to them. What are your thoughts about it? Comment with your thoughts in the space provided, and check back with Defused for more stories.
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