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When a new spouse joins the family, they become an integral part of it. That implies that they go to any events that bring the family together, such as dinners, vacations, and birthdays. It makes reasonable to extend a warm welcome to a new member of the family. If that can’t be assumed, something is wrong. In today’s “Am I the A$$hole?” post, the OP described how she recently got married and wanted to go on a family vacation with her husband’s family to get to know them better. Even though her husband’s hesitation about it is quite dubious, he eventually agreed to let her go. All was OK until she overheard her mother-in-law enquiring as to why she had even made the journey in the first place, to which her husband replied that he didn’t even want to bring her but that she had been extremely insistent about coming. It appears that this family didn’t exactly embrace her. To find out what happened, scroll down.
1. Heres how the story started. You must read it till the end
2. OP and his husband were married for some time but she did not know his family much, when asked to go to a vacation which his family planned, the husband showed reluctance
To be honest, it’s really weird that he hesitated in the first place. OP is his own wife! It should be a no-brainer that she comes on family trips. But we don’t know what was he upto, tight? So let’s read it till the end.
3. On the vacation, OP heard his husband and his family talking ill of her, how she was pushy in coming to the vacation which really shook her
4. OP went back home without informing anybody. Her husband contacted and put it all on her that it was not okay to go back and she shouldn’t have had come in the first place, it all gave a bad picture
5. Now OP thinks she messed it all up and ask for Redditors take on this
6. Now this is an important question
7. Exactly that’s what I was thinking about
8. I feel sorry but this is true
9. Not the a-hole, hence proved
10. Totally NTA
11. These are some important questions that OP need to think about instead of questioning herself
12. A married woman deserves all the respect from his man and that does not need to be debated. Not defending your woman is a big red flag
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