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In today’s story, OP, a mother who recently gave birth, faced an unexpected demand from her husband for a paternity test before their daughter’s birth, triggering a heated argument. The tension escalated, and OP sought refuge at her brother’s house shortly before going into labor. When OP went into labor, she made numerous calls to her husband, but he didn’t answer. OP’s brother, rushing to help, had her sign for a hysterectomy due to complications during childbirth, which almost cost OP her life. Her husband only responded over ten hours later, showing no remorse.
Now, OP is determined to divorce her husband, citing a loss of trust in their relationship. She intends to file for full custody of their daughter, believing his behavior during her childbirth, including missing calls, posed a life-threatening situation. Additionally, she plans to obtain a paternity test for legal purposes in the divorce. OP seeks legal advice regarding the situation and the potential implications of infidelity in their divorce proceedings. Scroll down to read more.
OP’s husband suddenly demanded a paternity test for their daughter’s birth, accusing OP of infidelity without reason, and causing a fight and stress.
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OP called him to reconcile while staying at her brother’s, but he refused. The next day, OP went into labor, calling him 16 times before contacting her brother to rush her to the hospital.
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A traumatic birth occurred in OP’s brother’s van as she opted for a hysterectomy due to complications, making bonding with her daughter difficult.
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OP’s brother lied to her husband about her dying when he called.
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He came and started shouting and later wasn’t allowed to see his daughter.
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OP’s brother and sister-in-law have mixed feelings about his actions, but OP’s brother stands by his “prank” and dislikes her husband now.
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OP’s husband is angry her brother won’t apologize for the prank, and my MIL suggests going no contact with her family.
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OP is struggling, avoiding her husband, and sleeping in the guest room; OP told him to leave if he stresses her more.
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OP’s therapist thinks it might be PTSD.
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OP doesn’t believe they can recover; their husband ignored her calls during a critical time, and she can’t forgive that.
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OP can’t forget the betrayal and fear during labor when he ignored her calls; she won’t let her daughter accept it.
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OP is seeking legal advice, and she doesn’t trust him to sign off on medical papers; OP wants this over.
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OP wouldn’t ignore calls like that; she feels supported by her brother, SIL, and her friends.
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OP will get the paternity test for the proceedings, but she guesses he’ll get what he wants. OP is safe and well, and her daughter is thriving.
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She thanks everyone for letting her tell this.
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She shares some intro to the case.
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OP is proceeding with a divorce, they have a prenup. She will seek full custody, considering his actions.
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She asks if investigating infidelity worthwhile in divorces, and do lawyers find this suspicious.
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The husband is at fault.
OP is doing it right.
He deserves worse than he’s getting.
True.
Everyone is happy OP is making this decision.
This might be the case.
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“My baby passed away today. Life has started to seem pointless. I just wish I could bring him back from the other side of the world.”
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