Sister Wants To Go On Vacation Instead Of Her Brother’s Wedding Because Of His Entitled Behaviour

Weddings are used to symbolize the beginning of a fresh chapter in life. Marriages are also traditionally known to strengthen bonds. The wedding day is often considered the biggest and the most important day for the newlyweds and also friends and family closest to them. As two people plan their perfect wedding day, they also need to take into account the suggestions of their close ones. Recently, a Redditor user detailed their unpleasant experience on the topic of their brother’s wedding and asked for other users to give opinions on whether they should miss the event in favor of a vacation or not. Scroll down below to read the full story:

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#1) Is OP in the wrong for this?

#2) OP never had a good relationship with her brother due to their age gap and he soon moved out.

#3) OP’s brother’s wedding is coming up in September and she was asked to be the bridesmaid.

#4) OP spent a lot of money and became close with the bridesmaids after which her sister in law decided she didn’t want OP to be a bridesmaid anymore.

#5) OP was heartbroken and went to pick up her 800$ dress to return it, but her sister in law stopped her and said the new bridesmaid would wear it.

#6) OP asked for financial compensation which she was denied, after which she left.

#7) OP’s brother and his fiancé tried to compromise but OP rejected their weak efforts and said she’s not going to the wedding.

#8) OP’s coworker offered her a half-price round trip ticket to Miami for half the price but it would mean she would be in Florida when her brother is getting married.

Although OP seemed really happy to use the occasion of her brother’s wedding to strengthen relationships with him and his fiancé, their viewpoint appears to be solid. Unlike OP, he and his fiancé, Sarah, seem to have little regard for her feelings and treats her disrespectfully. Regarding the question of what OP’s next move should be concerning the wedding, fellow Reddit users unanimously recommended that OP go to Miami in lieu of attending her sibling’s wedding.

Source: Reddit

#9) Exactly! Enjoy your time off, OP.

#10) That’s what I’m talking about.

#11) There could be no better choice to make in this situation.

#12) The dress thing was a step too far in the wrong direction.

#13) If they’re not financially compensating, that’s not even the bare minimum.

#14) Easy as that.

#15) Never judge a book by it’s cover and a Reddit AITA post by it’s title.

#16) I don’t believe it’s an AH move but it could seem that way to the family.

#17) A slap and a punch in the face, I would say.

#18) Have fun in Miami, OP. You deserve it.

#19) How could they even think that this offer was even slightly reasonable.

OP should probably stay quiet about the Miami situation.

#20) There is probably not that rigid of a set number for bridesmaids. She probably wanted the dress.

Why has OP’s brother been silent? Outrageous.

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