Daughter Tells Father That He’s The Reason Why None Of Siblings Likes Their Stepmom, Drama Ensues

OP’s family dynamic is complex. Their parents broke up when they were 5, with their dad gaining full custody but allowing visits with their mentally ill mother. Dad remarried, and as his relationship grew serious, he began comparing OP’s mom with their stepmom. When their mom passed away when OP was 14, Dad intensified the comparisons, even pressuring them to call their stepmom “mom.” This caused friction as they didn’t want to replace their mom. When OP’s sister had a pregnancy scare, she confided in the family but not Dad and stepmom. When this came to light, Dad scolded them harshly. OP defended their sister, blaming Dad’s insistence on their stepmom for their strained relationship. Now, labeled as disrespectful, OP faces pressure to apologize, but they stand firm in their feelings.

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1. Siblings do not like stepmom because of dad.

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2. OP’s mom faced mental health challenges and struggled as a parent, despite her love for them.

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3. After OP’s parents broke up, Dad started dating a new woman who was cool.

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4. At 5, OP’s parents split, but Dad allowed visits with their mother. Later, Dad met their stepmother, whom they liked.

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5. Around 13, OP’s mom’s health declined; at 14, she passed. The following year was a blur. Dad intensified “mom competition” thereafter.

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6. Dad pushed them to accept stepmom as “mom” after their own mother’s passing, causing discomfort. His comparisons intensified the feeling of replacing their mom.

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7. OP’s sister’s unexpected pregnancy strained their relationship with their stepmom, caught between OP’s family dynamics. When the sister lost the baby, parental support followed.

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8. OP’s stepmom confided her hurt to Dad about being excluded from news of OP’s sister’s pregnancy. Dad’s reaction, calling stepmom “mom,” sparked confrontation.

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9. OP’s stepmom cried as Dad continued yelling, shaming OP’s sister. OP pointed out Dad’s role in their strained relationship with stepmom.

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10. OP’s words were used against them, labeled mean and disrespectful. Family expects an apology, deeming OP entitled and ungrateful despite parental support.

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Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this. Don’t forget to share your own opinion at the end of this article.

11. The dad is being insensitive.

12. OP’s response was justified given the circumstances.

13. The Dad could have behaved in a more understanding way.

14. Nobody likes a forced stepmom.

15. The dad is the problem here.

16. This needs to be defined.

17. Your dad’s actions disregarded your emotions, and it’s unfair for him to expect you to suddenly view your stepmom as your mother.

18. No way are you the AH here.

19. It’s understandable for you to reject the forced narrative of accepting your stepmom as your mother.

20. Absolutely NTA. Your dad’s attempt to force acceptance of your stepmom’s role crossed a line, and your response was a natural reaction to his unfair demands.

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