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In this story, a custodial parent has full custody of their 10-year-old daughter, with the non-custodial parent having visitation rights one weekend a month. The child has been expressing a strong desire not to go to her non-custodial parent’s home during these visitation weekends. Her reasons include not liking the shared accommodations and disliking the food provided.
Despite the child’s objections and pleas not to go, the custodial parent has been insisting on adhering to the visitation schedule. This has resulted in emotional distress for the child, leading to crying and yelling whenever the topic of visiting the other parent is raised.
The custodial parent’s mother believes that their approach is too rigid and that they should consider allowing the child to stay home instead of forcing her to go on the visitation weekends. Now OP’s mom thinks he’s an A-hole for not letting her stay and OP wants to know whether he’s an A-hole or not.
So keep on scrolling down below and make sure to read it till the end. Only then would you be able to let us know who’s an A-hole in this scenario.
1. OP has a 10-year-old daughter with her ex and he has full custody of her and she has visitation one weekend a month
2. OP tried very hard to get this custody but he really needs a child-free weekend moreover, her daughter has ADHD and she’s full of energy.
3. OP’s daughter doesn’t want to go to her mother’s home because she hates sharing a room and she also said that she doesn’t like the food
4. OP’s mom thinks that he’s an A-hole for not letting her stay
5. This user thinks OP’s an A-hole because something is really going on over there and he needs to figure it out before making decisions
6. This user thinks that depriving her daughter of those weekends could put him in legal trouble moreover, the user said OP is NTA.
7. If OP doesn’t let her go to her mom’s place she can sue him for parental alienation and withholding of the child, people who think he’s an A-hole need to realize he has a legally binding custody agreement.
8. NTA
9. This user thinks that as long as it’s safe she needs to go there and she’s just being stubborn and OP is only correcting her to make her go
10. Most of the user thinks OP is an A-hole and some of them think he’s NTA those who thinks he’s an A-hole needs to realize he’s in a legally binding custody agreement
11. This user made a solid point, what do you think viewers?
12. This user thinks OP needs to dig deeper and find out what’s making her daughter uncomfortable from going to her mom’s house
13. This user thinks OP is an A-hole for minimizing his child’s request
14. While most people said OP is an A-hole this user suggested OP find the root problem of her daughter’s issue and compromise moreover, the user said OP is NTA and there’s nothing wrong in taking a break.
15. OP must bring the child to her mother’s home
16. This could be an option but OP is legally bound to take her daughter to her mother’s place once a month
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