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25 Moms Share Their Experience With Postpartum Depression And It’s Heartbreaking

Depression is nothing to scoff at.

I know there are still many people who don’t ‘believe’ in depression. I am aware of how dumb that sounds since there is the actual scientific research behind mental illnesses but some choose not to see the truth and would rather live in lies. However, depression has many types and can show its signs in many different ways.


For example, one of these ‘types’ is postpartum depression. To quote it perfectly, this is what postpartum depression really is.

The birth of a baby can trigger a jumble of powerful emotions, from excitement and joy to fear and anxiety. But it can also result in something you might not expect — depression.Most new moms experience postpartum “baby blues” after childbirth, which commonly include mood swings, crying spells, anxiety, and difficulty sleeping.

But some new moms experience a more severe, long-lasting form of depression known as postpartum depression. Rarely, an extreme mood disorder called postpartum psychosis also may develop after childbirth.Postpartum depression isn’t a character flaw or a weakness. Sometimes it’s simply a complication of giving birth. –Mayoclinic

That is why today we have decided to share some mother’s experiences dealing with postpartum depression.

#1 A glass wall you can’t break.

Via CW

Postpartum depression is like being on one side of a glass wall and seeing your child on the other side — you want so badly to connect, but you literally can’t. Those of us who have it constantly feel like there is something broken inside of us as mothers and as women. -virgomom22

#2 It isn’t always immediate.

It doesn’t always happen right away. I thought I was in the clear until my baby was about 6-months-old…when it hit me like a freight train. -maliaf2

#3 Not just the baby blues.

Via Eric Mccandless

I wish people would stop calling it ‘just the baby blues’. We can’t snap out of it by getting a nap or a night out without the baby. It’s depression, and it’s heartbreaking to suffer through. -angels4d

#4 Run away from all of it.

I had the urge to get into my car, drive away from my family, and never turn back. And it was terrifying. -thinmint

#5 Anger taking over.


Postpartum depression didn’t make me cry. Instead, all I could feel was anger. But I found some free support groups and talked to a mental health professional, and eventually, things got better. –youreakitty

I would go from zero to eleven over the smallest things! It wasn’t until I came across some blogs from other mothers with postpartum depression that I discovered this is actually a pretty common struggle. –caitlinl22

#6 Not excited for the baby.

I didn’t even notice it until I could no longer smile or participate in conversations about my baby. Everyone else was excited, and I just couldn’t get on board. -ohsoperfect

#7 Feeling the doubt creeping in.

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I loved breastfeeding. I loved feeling my baby against me. I even looked forward to her waking up. But when she fell asleep, the doubt crept in. I was suddenly convinced that I was a terrible mother.

I imagined myself dying, my husband remarrying soon after, and my daughter growing up with a stable, fun, smart mother who could take care of her better than I could. I wanted to be her mother, but I also felt so incapable. -Antoinette Morales

#8 Not connecting with your child.

It isn’t just about an inability to connect with your babies. For me, it was overwhelming anxiety and fear that came with them. -kelleyk47e9b33d2

#9 Growing a new personality.


A lot of us feel guilt and shame because society sets women up to be overjoyed about motherhood. But in reality, becoming a mom strips away a layer of your identity and requires you to rapidly build up another. And sometimes that loving, euphoric, mother goddess layer just doesn’t take hold right away. -kayleighp48

#10 Nothing was fun.

Everything was a chore. Nothing was fun, easy, or happy. -Elizabeth Hayes

#11 They need support not hate.


Please don’t judge us as mothers. Just support us and our efforts to get help — that’s what we need most. –angels4d

Hating being pregnant doesn’t mean we hate our babies, and being depressed doesn’t mean we hate being moms. Sometimes, it’s purely chemical. –melle

#12 Pretending everything is fine.

The most surprising thing for me was how willing people were to pretend that I didn’t have PPD — when I literally felt the urge to throw my baby out of a window when she wouldn’t stop crying. Their denial made me feel like I couldn’t talk about it or ask for help.

Thank God my husband believed me and supported me getting the help I knew I needed to be the mom my daughter deserves. -deltar

#13 Woke up.

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I actually passed all the questions my doctor asked me. But one day I woke up feeling like a completely different person. –jessiec4d7

It’s SO sneaky and so easy to dismiss as sleep deprivation or even ‘new mommy brain that you don’t even know you have it!’. –lisab4f

#14 A blessing.

It can also occur during pregnancy. Antepartum depression is less known, but people do experience it — like me. I felt at my absolute lowest during pregnancy but hid it from everyone to hold up the impression that pregnancy is a blessing and a happy time. -kristinasays

#15 Physical pain.

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It can manifest itself as physical pain as well. I went to the emergency room for really bad chest and back pains, where I learned it was actually postpartum depression and anxiety. -jessiecai12

#16 Nails on a chalkboard.

The final straw was the day I heard the breast pump and it sounded like nails on a chalkboard. That’s when I knew I had to get help. -laurennm3

#17 Takes a long time to heal.


It can last YEARS. I didn’t start to feel the joy of motherhood until my son was 2 years old. -mirianflsnow

#18 Perfectly fine from the outside.

Sometimes you can go about your work and taking care of your baby through your postpartum depression, but with no feeling whatsoever — only numbness. So you can be ‘fine,’ but you’re no longer you. -michellej45

#19 No support whatsoever.

Via Eric Mccandless

I was surprised at the lack of support from other moms, even those who went through it themselves. I was judged for taking medication instead of ‘just exercising and talking to friends’ to get better, and for stopping breastfeeding in order to do so. In the end, I found my husband and childless friends to be way more supportive. -andrea7188

#20 The change that comes with pregnancy.

I would look at my husband and cry, ‘What have we done?!’ But I didn’t even realize how bad I felt until I got help and felt better. Pregnancy and birth can change a woman, and it’s OK to get help for whatever it is that changes in you. -montgomerycliftonh

#21 It never goes away.


It breaks my heart as my child grows and I realize we missed so much bonding time in the beginning. I feel like I have to constantly make sure he knows I love him. Those 6 months of postpartum depression will be ever-present for the rest of my life. -brittneyc40

#22 Sometimes you need a little time away.

Don’t be ashamed of doing what you feel is best for you and your child. I decided to become a ‘part-time parent’ and have my baby live with my very trusted friend for a few months.

I knew I wasn’t capable of caring for him, so I limited his nights with me until I had my postpartum depression under control. -justinealid

#23 Uncontrollable.


I used to think people with depression were just seeking attention or needed to ‘buck up’, but after three months of postpartum depression, I have a better understanding of what they suffer daily. Only now do I understand just how deep and uncontrollable it really is. -thinmint

#24 Feeling lonely.

I felt very alone in the beginning. But as soon as I became vocal about my postpartum depression, I heard from many, many friends who’d gone through the same thing! -kayleighp48

#25 I was all she needed.

Via CW
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The days were long, lonely, and painfully repetitive — and every day felt as horrible as the last. But to my daughter, I was more than enough. I was her mom. It was a long road, but eventually, I made it through the darkness. Oh, and vitamin D helped, too! -mareng4a318a3eb

Do you know someone that is suffering through this right now? If so support them however you can. They might just need a helping hand or a shoulder to cry on.


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