AITA For Wearing A White Dress To My Friend Wedding

Friendship is something that everyone wants to enjoy, but it becomes a burden when friends use it against one another. Friendship flourishes on the basis of trust, and those who try to test their friends never find the true one.

OP and Charlotte were close friends from college because they had similar interests and enjoyed hanging out together. Charlotte was about to marry Josh and had been planning her wedding for the past 18 months. OP assisted her in preparing the ceremony and offered her $250 to add to the amount she received from their parents for the event. For the event, OP wanted to choose an outfit from her three options, so she approached Charlotte for advice. Charlotte demanded that OP pull out all of her wardrobe, and she eventually picked on one white outfit, which OP immediately rejected. Charlotte pushed OP to wear the white dress and paired it with her heels. Read the entire tale to find out what happened at the event when OP wore the dress that the bride had picked for her, and share your thoughts in the comments section below.

Source: Reddit

1. OP asks if it is wrong to wear a white dress on her friend’s wedding?

2. OP had a best friend, Charlotte, from their college days with whom she got along well, having similar interests.

3. Charlotte and her fiancé were getting married, and OP assisted her in planning and organizing the big day, as well as providing financial support.

4. A month before the wedding, OP approached Charlotte for advice on choosing a dress for her special day from the three options she had whittled down.

5. Charlotte made OP pull out every outfit she had and chose a white one, which OP instantly rejected. The bride chose her matching heels to go with it and convinced OP to wear it.

6. Last week, on the day of the wedding, OP came thirty minutes early in the same white dress and received strange looks. Charlotte was also astounded to see OP dressed in white.

7. Charlotte chastised OP for wearing the white dress, which she only chose to test OP’s friendship. OP took back the wedding gift and fled her wedding after being humiliated.

8. OP received criticism from Charlotte, her friends, and the family via messages for causing chaos during her wedding, but OP did not believe that she was at fault.

9. OP stated that she was unsure from the start about wearing the white dress, but Charlotte persuaded her to do so by claiming that she wanted OP to look flawless.

10. The bride was wearing blue dress on her wedding.

Now that you’ve heard the story, let’s dive into what Redditors had to say. Keep reading to discover other people’s perspectives on the matter.

11. Redditor is right about friends.

12. Yes, real friends never do that.

13. Undoubtedly! It was the bride’s fault, not OP’s.

14. Well! Both situations are risky.

15. Redditor believes that the bride deliberately did the whole drama.

16. According to Redditor, the bride chose the white dress from 20 choices, so OP had to agree to it.

17. Redditor suggests that OP should unfriend her.

18. Redditor had a similar experience in the past.

19. The twisted words are indeed difficult for everyone to understand.

20. According to Redditor, the financial help provided by OP was sufficient proof of her friendship.

OP did not want to wear a white dress because it is often reserved for brides. After being forced by Charlotte, OP chose it because Charlotte was wearing a blue gown during the ceremony. She was concerned that it would appear strange, but she wanted to fulfill her friend’s request. She never expected her friend would test her based on a dress, and was devastated when Charlotte said horrible things to her during the occasion. OP did the right thing by leaving the place and ending her friendship after witnessing such hypocrisy. What is your perspective on the OP’s situation? Leave your thoughts, and stay tuned to Defused for more stories.