Wife Refuses To Take Care Of Husband’s 4 Cats While He’s Away For 3 Years For Work, Asks If She’s Being Unfair

While cats may seem like chill animals that require little maintenance, some of them can be surprisingly energetic, making it exhausting to care for them. Younger cats also tend to have a lot more energy than older cats and often run around making chaos. Keeping up with their needs and keeping the house in order can be quite a daunting task when put together. In today’s Reddit story, OP’s husband may have been impulsive and not thought things through when deciding to adopt four cats just one month before entering a relationship. It’s crucial to make decisions with caution and consider the time and resources required to provide for adopted pets because now he’s upset at OP for it.

Recently, OP and her husband got into a big argument. The reason for the argument was because of differing views on whether OP should help care for the cats while the husband is overseas. OP had previously agreed that she would only help take care of the cats if her husband was ill or for short amounts of time as she liked her freedom and is not interested in taking on too many responsibilities, such as children or pets.

OP shocked her Husband when she said he needed to arrange care for the cats while he was away for three years for his work contract. Her husband was furious with this, but she says that 3 years is too long since the cats are quite energetic and tend to wreck things around the house. This is a long story with many perspectives worth considering, so be sure to scroll down and read everything:

Source: u/proppacuppatea

#1) Redditor asks if she is the AH for refusing to handle her husband’s cats for a prolonged period.

#2) OP mentions having refused to take on the responsibility of her husband’s four cats while he’s away to another country.

#3) OP says that she likes her freedom and likes being free of responsibilities but she generally gets along with his cats.

#4) OP’s husband is shocked that she doesn’t wanna take care of them but he’s leaving for three years and that’s too much.

#5) The plan was already flawed since OP was scheduled to visit her husband multiple times throughout the year anyway. Her husband isn’t talking to her now.

#6) An edit reveals that OP and her husband have had this conversation about the cats before and that he knew he might have to go overseas but still adopted them.

#7) OP planned to visit every three months. She also mentions that his cats are very far from chill cats, they’re very feisty and hard to handle.

#8) Taking care of the cats is not an easy task since they’re very active and like to escape often.

Source: u/proppacuppatea

It is a delicate situation. Expecting someone to take care of cats for three years is not reasonable. Redditors in the comments were heavily confused by this situation, having a lot of different opinions but one thing was for sure – most people seemed to agree that three years is a long time for anyone to commit to caring for another person’s cats. Keep on scrolling to see what users are saying about the situation: