In this scenario, a family with three children, two daughters aged 15 and 10, and a son aged 11, faces a housing dilemma due to financial constraints. Despite improved financial stability, they cannot afford to upsize their home due to the housing market. As a result, they decide that their son will take the smallest bedroom, while the two daughters will share a room, prompting the older daughter to accuse her parents of favoritism towards her brother. Despite their explanations about the appropriateness of separating boys and girls as they reach adolescence, the older daughter perceives their decision as unfair. She accuses them of harboring inappropriate thoughts about their children.
Keep on scrolling down below to read the whole story narrated by OP, and make sure to read it till the end; otherwise, you won’t be able to let us know whether OP is an A-hole or not.
1. OP has two girls and one boy and they used to have a four-bedroom home but now, due to financial constraints, they had to downsize it to 3 bedrooms.
2. OP’s older daughter is in the smallest room with their son, and the younger daughter shares the room; moreover, they have decided that they are now the same age and shouldn’t be sharing a room anymore.
3. Now OP’s daughter is not happy but she is accusing OP of favoritism towards their son and she says they are thinking disgustingly of their kids.
4. Now OP wants to know whether she’s an A-hole or not.
Now that you have read the story, it’s time for you to see what Redditors had to say about this. Read till the end to see what are other people’s opinions on this.
5. NTA
6. This user said it’s a tough situation and asked OP if there was any way to set up a privacy partition.
7. Yes, they would have to adjust somehow because the family is suffering from financial constraints and they need to understand.
8. What are your thoughts on this?
9. No single person said OP is an A-hole, and we can guess why.
10. They all get it one day.
11. We all hope OP tries to help her older daughter with this issue!
12. Kids never forget and they will blame it all on you.
13. That’s a decent rule in the UK.
14. All countries have different rules.
15. A bit rude, but on point!
16. On point!
17. Exactly! OP is not favoring any one of them; she is just trying to make her point, which is accurate, and the kids will get to know when they will have their kids.
18. Is she a drama queen? Share your thoughts.
19. Somehow true!
20. If that had been from the start, then there would have been no problems. Well, better late than sorry!
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