Boyfriend Cancels The Birthday Trip And Accuses His Girlfriend Of Always Saying ‘Stupid Things’

It’s a fact that nobody is perfect.

Even though we all have things we wish to hide or change, it is not always easy to make those changes. In relationships, it’s essential to accept your partner for who they are and not try to change them, even if they have faults. Accepting their flaws and not trying to change them is the foundation of a healthy relationship. However, this doesn’t mean you should tolerate your partner constantly lying or hurting you emotionally or physically. If you notice any red flags in your relationship, it’s best to end it rather than try to change your partner.

The person behind this story is struggling with a particular issue. She and her boyfriend had planned a birthday trip to Los Angeles and were eagerly looking forward to it for a month. However, things went awry when she called her boyfriend on the morning of their departure and found out that he was still asleep and seemed annoyed by her call. This led to an argument between them and the trip was delayed. He later rescheduled the hotel reservation for the next week, but this made her doubt whether he had actually made the reservation in the first place.

You can scroll below to see why she thinks this.

Source: Reddit

There is a reason she is so suspicious of her partner.

And we will soon come to understand that once we understand their relationship a bit more.

They were quite excited for the tip or more accurate would be that she was excited.

But the trip was ‘delayed’ and he cited that it was because of her saying ‘stupid things’ all the time.

He continuously ranted at her for making him mad and didn’t even listen to her.

She was unable to understand why he was so mad.

But this drama caused her to question whether he made the reservations in the first place.

And she is also out $500 after she gave it to him for this trip.

She isn’t sure what the problem is so she asked Reddit for some help.

The person in question has only been in a relationship for four months, and their partner has already lied about several things. It’s not a pleasant experience to be in a relationship where your partner constantly lies and you can’t trust them. Though I usually don’t advocate for breaking up in extreme cases, I think it might be good advice in this situation. After all, it hasn’t been that long, so it wouldn’t be a significant loss if the relationship ended. However, I’m not sure if the person will ever get their money back. The partner may just say that it was a birthday gift.

People in the comments were quite brutal with their opinions.

Most people agreed that she should break up with him.

After all, it hasn’t been that long and she deserves better.

Apparently, this relationship is doomed.

He might want this to happen as well.

I am not sure whether I agree with this leap of logic but I do think they need to reconsider the relationship.

What are your thoughts on this relationship drama? Do you think the person is being too suspicious and hiding things themselves? Or do you believe that their partner is genuinely lying? Would you continue a relationship like this if you knew your partner was a habitual liar? Let us know in the comments below, and don’t forget to share this story with your friends so they can share their stories too.