Daughter Refuses To Talk To Mother After She Gave Her Wedding Fund To Her Stepsister

OP’s stepsister had to postpone her wedding due to COVID, losing deposits and downsizing her budget. OP, also engaged, asked their parents for their $10k wedding fund, but their stepdad gave it to the stepsister. The stepdad justified it by claiming that OP’s fiancé’s family, whom he considered wealthy, would make up the difference. OP feels hurt and upset, but the parents insist it’s their money.

This situation raises questions about fairness, priorities, and family dynamics. OP’s feelings of being slighted are valid, as they had an understanding that they would receive the wedding fund. However, the stepdad’s decision highlights a complex issue of favoritism and the perception of financial resources. It’s a situation where emotions and relationships intersect with money, creating a difficult and emotionally charged dilemma for OP. The conflicting reactions from family members further complicate the matter, leaving OP in a challenging position.

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While discussing wedding plans, OP asked their mom to transfer the wedding funds to their separate bank account. Mom acted evasive and eventually revealed the fund was given to her stepsister.

OP’s mom revealed that their stepdad gave the wedding fund to stepsister, as she lost much of her budget due to COVID. Stepsister begged for the money, and stepdad agreed.

Stepdad gave the wedding fund to stepsister because she and her fiancé have low-paying jobs. He believes OP’s fiancé’s wealthy family can cover the costs. He made a hurtful joke.

Mom keeps calling, and my sister is aware of OP’s stepdad’s past actions, like giving her stepsister part of her college fund.

Mom and stepdad insist OP has no right to be upset over their choice. Stepdad even taunted her for being petty about the wedding fund.

OP is confused is she overreacting? My wedding plans aren’t set, and my dad will likely contribute. But would my stepdad act the same with my stepbrother?

OP has every right to feel upset. NTA.

Don’t let anyone diminish your feelings. You had every right to your wedding fund.