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Embarking on the adventure of pet adoption is often seen as a heartwarming tale of rescue and newfound companionship. It’s a beacon of hope, offering shelter animals the prospect of a loving home and a caring family to call their own.
Adopting a pet is a profoundly rewarding experience, bestowing therapeutic companionship and unconditional love upon the adopter. Yet, like any significant life choice, it’s not always a straightforward journey. Enthusiasm for a cute, furry friend should be balanced with careful consideration of the pet’s energy levels, temperament, and needs in harmony with the owner’s lifestyle and living conditions.
In a recent case, a Redditor approached the adoption process thoughtfully, communicating their lifestyle and preferences to the rescue shelter. However, it seems there might be a mismatch. Despite initial beliefs of a perfect match, the reality unfolded differently. The adopted dog struggled to adjust to OP’s compact home with no usable yard. Despite dedicated efforts, the dog’s high energy clashed with the confined space, resulting in indoor chaos and training challenges.
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Source: Reddit
1. Mismatches will always occur in life. Accepting and embracing them will never make you an AH.
2. OP wanted to adopt a dog for a very long time and when he finally did, the newly bonded friends just couldn’t connect.
3. The compactness of OP’s house and no yard doesn’t allow the dog to utilize the high level of energy coursing through its veins.
4. The small made training the dog a major challenge.
5. OP realized early on that the dog wasn’t a fit for him.
6. So before doing the needful, OP asked the internet if he would be an AH for giving his adoption back to the shelter.
7. So it was all a bit of what I wanted vs what I got, a mismatch that was never going to turn into a match because this was not what OP wanted.
8. The rescue said it was a lab mix but the vet OP took him to said that was highly unlikely so he has applied for a DNA test to know the truth.
9. OP has found another match, as suggested by the rescue. Hopefully this time things will work out.
A very clear NTA! OP would have been AH had he become stubborn and made the dog forcefully live with him. It would have made life h*ll for both the dog and OP. Poor guy wouldn’t have any place to let all his energy out and that can be very dangerous health-wise. OP, on the other hand, because never got what he wanted, would have had a terrible time trying to control/train the dog. Some mismatches can never become matches, no matter how hard you try.
The decision okay took was sober and correct.
Source: Reddit
Here are some of the comments shared on the story:
10. Anyone’s first time with a problem dog will always be problematic.
11. In such a case, acceptance is key.
Via JoeJackson88
12. It is better to rehome the dog.
13. The dog isn’t getting its needs met which isn’t OP’s fault. Keep trying, though Don’t stop.
14. See, you just have to keep trying until you find the perfect match. Adoption is no easy game.
Via Live_Carpet6396
15. It’s the fact that OP admitted things working out that made him NTA.
Via RutilatedGold
16. Now that OP knows the find of the dog he cannot match with, finding the right one in the future will be much easier.
17. Letting go of the dog is the kindest thing OP could have done for it.
Via ToastMmmmmmm
18. Don’t give the dog back the shelter you got it from. Either find new owners for it or give it to a different shelter.
Via EvilFinch
19. While the majority thought OP would be doing the right thing by giving the dog away, some suggested some training strategies to better the relationship.
20. This person suggested taking the dog to a dog daycare center as it helped them a lot with their dog’s energy management.
Via MdvlMkm
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