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Family dynamics can sometimes take unforeseen turns.
Birthdays are usually a time for joy, celebration, and the coming together of loved ones. However, not all gatherings end on a positive note. One unforgettable incident, which occurred about 8 years ago, sheds light on how a seemingly innocent birthday celebration turned into a chaotic and emotional rollercoaster for one family.
The story revolves around OP’s sister’s 11th birthday celebration, where family members from their dad’s side were invited. OP’s aunt (EM) and cousin (EC), who had moved to California and rarely visited, joined the celebration. However, instead of embracing the joyous occasion, EM insisted that her daughter be the center of attention and demanded that she cut the cake meant for OP’s sister. The tensions escalated further during gift unwrapping, with EM showing entitlement towards the gifts, leading to conflict and sorrow. The situation took an unexpected turn when OP shared the story on Reddit, and EM discovered it, resulting in a phone call filled with anger and threats. Read the complete story below for a detailed account of the events that unfolded.
OP is from India and apologizes for any language mistakes as English is not their first language.
OP recounts an incident from 8 years ago when their sister’s 11th birthday was overshadowed by their aunt (EM) and cousin (EC) who demanded special attention, leading to a dispute over cutting the cake and an uncomfortable situation during dinner.
During gift unwrapping, OP’s sister received Barbies and a dollhouse, while OP gave her homemade chocolates. OP’s aunt (EM) insisted that the chocolates be given to OP’s cousin (EC) and also made OP’s sister share other gifts with EC.
EC began crying for more chocolates, and OP’s aunt berated OP for not giving them to EC. Under pressure, OP’s sister reluctantly gave EC three more chocolates. With only five chocolates left, OP’s aunt noticed that OP saved theirs and insisted they give it to EC, but OP refused.
During the unwrapping of the dollhouse and Barbie, EM aggressively tried to take the doll away from OP’s sister, causing her to cry. EM yelled at S for being “mean and stingy,” insisting that her daughter EC needed the doll since she lacked Indian toys. When OP’s father refused, EM kicked the dollhouse and dented it before leaving. 
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Around an hour later, EM returned, accusing OP’s family of poisoning her child and threatening to sue. Despite EC’s stomach ache, EM didn’t call a doctor but brought her to their house instead. After calling the doctor and finding out EC’s pain was from overeating chocolates. EM then blamed OP and their sister, labeling them as spoiled and mean kids.
TLDR:
The entitled aunt’s behavior displayed a shocking level of self-centeredness and disregard for others. Throughout the birthday celebration, she consistently demanded that her daughter be the center of attention, overshadowing the occasion meant for OP’s sister. From insisting that the birthday girl share her gifts, including cherished Barbie dolls and homemade chocolates, to throwing fits and yelling when her demands weren’t met, the aunt exhibited a complete lack of empathy or consideration for her own niece.
Turns out, either EM or her daughter (EC) is on Reddit and subscribed to r/entitledparents, and they came across OP’s story. Last night, something happened in response to the post.
Last night, at around 11, EM called OP’s dad while he was half asleep, upset and questioning why OP shared the story on Reddit, feeling shamed and pleading to let it go since it happened years ago.
OP’s dad questions why it’s a big deal. EM responds by criticizing OP’s daughters, suggesting they lack manners and need better supervision. Dad remains confused, as OP hasn’t spoken to EM in years, but EM reveals that OP posted a story about them.
OP’s dad asks if they posted the story and why, OP clarifies that they only narrated a story without revealing anyone’s identity. When handed the phone to speak with EM, she immediately starts screaming, accusing OP of poisoning her child and demanding they take down the post:
OP firmly refuses to comply with EM’s demands and mocks her threat to sue from California. EM resorts to insulting OP and their sister. Eventually, OP’s dad intervenes, instructing EM never to contact them again and proceeds to block her:
Such irony!
She read the post about an entitled mother and instantly knew it was about her:
“She can be entitled but we just aren’t supposed to call her out on it.”
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