Redditor Stands Up To Entitled Mother, Shuts Her Down When She Told That They Are Wasting Money

Despite common belief, some people are simply not suited for parenthood, no matter how much they might want to start a family. Although the idea of overbearing parenting can vary from individual to individual, most people do agree that a dominating mother who excessively tries to control her child’s life and leaves her feeling helpless, for sure falls within the realm of overbearing parenting.

When a mother’s overbearing nature is always present, consistently berating and making her children feel bad and when she’s acting as if she’s never satisfied with any accomplishments, it causes the children to feel inadequate. Treating your kids this way can leave long-lasting imprints well into adulthood. A toxic mother’s children may end up distancing themselves from their overbearing mother to avoid the constant stress and negative comments, or they may resort to just listening out of frustration to save themselves the headache. It is a relationship like this that our OP from today’s Reddit story posted in r/entitledparents is dealing with. Scroll down below to read the whole story:

Source: u/[deleted]

#1) How dare OP waste her own money?

#2) OP provides us a bit of background here, telling us that she lives on her own now and used to have a rocky relationship with her mother who is the entitled parent in this situation.

#3) Usually OP finances her own plane tickets or splits it with her father. One time, she was eating dinner with her brother and mom and they were talking about university.

#4) OP’s mother, not even having paid any expense of her education, started degrading her and told her she should stop wasting time and money.

#5) OP explains that her mother is very passive aggressive and creates problems. OP then asks if she should go, saying that she pays for her own things.

#6) OP stands up for herself against her mother for the first time and the rest of the dinner goes smoothly.

#7) OP gives us a summary of her story and clarifies that her mother has been very emotionally and verbally abusive in the past.

Source: u/[deleted]

Each college’s students have their own distinctive vibe according to the faculty and curriculum that they offer. However, according to information shared by some university students, engineering typically ends up exhibiting a somewhat cyclical structure. OP had basically been putting in maximum effort despite hard circumstances and one thing that is definitely not needed is any additional criticism or ridicule from her own mother. Keep on reading to see what Reddit users are saying about this:

#8) OP’s mother is likely projecting.

Via Jack_lime12

#9) That would’ve been another good response.

Via FallenAngelII

#10) Absolutely true, OP deserved better.

Via SadieBrownEyes

#11) Engineering is in fact incredibly difficult as is, and nobody needs the negative criticism.

Via cookieinaloop

#12) OP manages a lot of things that she is discredited for.

Via XxfoxyxX1

#13) Absolutely true.

Via JNUMETSU

#14) Another fun option.

Via bluetooth528

#15) Mommy issues gang.

Via Ianpogorelov

#16) Proud of OP!

Via total_h

#17) Everything will be okay.

Via KupKate95

#18) Wishing OP all the best.

Via Eheumeansalas

#19) We believe in you OP!

Via CrazyCreatorMS

#20) Stole the word right out of my mouth.

Via Milkshakeyyy

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