Tayyaba Jabeen
It’s no secret that women need other women to support, adore, cherish, and fight for them no matter what. Sisterhood and solidarity with others is no doubt the foundation of our lives as women, the reason for our existence, and the backbone of our foundation. It’s a powerful thing that can lead to incredible transformations. However, does this always work in reality? Meet today’s Redditor ICantPicksides, who wanted to fulfill a legal obligation but ended up being berated for it. Scroll down below to read the whole story and let us know what you think.
Source: u/ICantPickSides
#1) OP is asking if he is wrong for changing the locks?
#2) OP rents out the bottom half of her property to a couple. Today when OP came back, one of her tenants was outside and couldn’t get in. The locks had been changed and the main suspect was his wife.
#3) OP called the man’s wife who said she would talk to OP later and to not let her husband in. OP went and got their locks changed.
#4) OP ordered copies of the keys and gave it to the husband. When OP called the wife, she freaked out and told OP that her husband had cheated and OP was helping him escape the consequences.
#5) OP told them that it’s not her place to be involved in their marriage but was verbally assaulted by the tenant. OP then asked her sister for advice but got the same response.
Source: u/ICantPickSides
It’s important for us to recognize that there is room for all of us to succeed and that women can support each other without feeling like there will be a sacrifice. This situation with OP is very complex but most people can agree that it’s not OP’s fault because she simply didn’t know that her tenant was a cheater. Scroll down below to see what actual Reddit users have been saying about it:
#6) That was not okay in any circumstance.
#7) It was not the right move to make legally, she was acting out emotionally and it wasn’t OP’s place to be involved.
Via KaliTheBlaze
#8) This is very good advice, OP should document everything.
#9) Him cheating is not OP’s problem.
Via ReviewOk929
#10) It was a legal obligation.
Via AgentAlpo
#11) true, going to court seems like the best option here.
Via _mmiggs_
#12) OP’s tenant should have gone about it in a better way.
Via Drama-Popcorn
#13) Call the cops!
Via IamIrene
#14) Quite frankly, it’s not OP’s headache.
Via Nalpona_Freesun
#15) We can not change laws!
Via TCTX73
#16) OP just wanted to mind her own business and honestly had every right to.
#17) OP is allowed to have different priorities.
#18) There was a big gap of communication.
Via PhePheLaFrou
#19) Women supporting women has a limit too.
#20) The tenant should have asked OP at least, that was not okay in any capacity.
Via FlyGuy1922
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