Wife Asks If She Is Wrong For Being Upset Over Her Ex-Husband Going To A Concert Alone

Relationships are not always successful.

Most films depict two people falling in love, marrying, and living happily ever after. In real life, however, there is no happily ever after. After all, the real work starts when you marry or begin living with your partner. Real-life problems have a way of erasing all the sparkles you first noticed in your partner. That is why relationships necessitate a great deal of effort and compromise from both parties. But it may be worthwhile if you genuinely care about each. However, sometimes, no matter how hard you try, the only solution is to call it quits and move on.

That is what the poster of this story is going through. She and her husband have already divorced, but their finances appear to be shared. I’m not sure why anyone would do that, but they must have thought it was a good idea. They continue to take vacations and do everything else together. They may call it co-parenting, but it sounds to me like a rocky relationship where one or both parties aren’t fully letting go of each other. However, this particular situation could be the catalyst.

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This is going to be a wild ride so strap in.

Even though they re separated, they made plans to go to a concert together.

Only a week later OP made all the plans and sorted out everything.

However, things went downhill when she was uninvited and it wasn’t even a ‘boys’ night out.

What was supposed to be a mini-vacation for her as well changed into a week of responsibilities.

The cost also increased exponentially.

However, she didn’t say anything to keep the peace.

We also get a little bit more information which just turns the situation even worse.

To be honest, I’m taken aback by everything. Why do they continue to share money even though they aren’t together? And why did they decide to attend a concert together? Nothing makes any sense to me. OP claims that their friends are unaware that they have separated, but it appears that they have not gone through the legal divorce process either. And, while I don’t know much about their relationship, from what I’ve read, it doesn’t appear to be healthy. They should simply separate their finances so that they can travel as separate individuals wherever or whenever they want.

I would have to agree with this person.

They definitely need to separate their finances.

It sounds like they are still in a relationship.

While I usually say break up is quite extreme, in this case, I would have to agree.

They need to move on individually with their lives.

OP herself commented how she realizes she needs to let the relationship go.

What are your thoughts on this chaotic situation? Do you believe the OP is still attempting to maintain some semblance of a relationship? Or do you believe the opposite is true? Have you ever been in a situation like this before? If so, let us know in the comments section below, and don’t forget to share this story with your friends so they can contribute their experiences as well.