Malaika
A wedding is a special occasion.
It is quite common for the couple to feel special on their wedding day and to make it a memorable occasion. Whether it’s the bride wanting the perfect dress and hoping nothing goes wrong, or the parents interfering, it’s a stressful day. Not only that, but we must also remember that photography is an important part of the day. After all, if there are no pictures, did it even happen? Isn’t that how you keep your memories together? While having pictures with family members is nice, sometimes the couple wants to feel extra special and take pictures without any of them.
We’ve all seen couple shoots, and they’re always stunning. However, if one or both spouses have children and the kids want to be close, this can be difficult. We understand how difficult it is for children to accept stepparents, and it can be made even more difficult if the new stepmother requests that the child be Photoshopped out of the wedding photos. At the very least, we can all assume from the title of this story that this woman does not sound like a caring person and does not want the child ‘ruining’ her special day. As you might expect, this irritated the father.
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Source: Reddit
The title seems very simple but the story is a bit more complicated.
From the way he talks about it, it is clear that she loves the kid.
So he was quite shocked when he found out that she photoshopped the kid out of the wedding pictures.
It is pretty normal for people to want to take pictures with different family members at times.
However, the guy couldn’t calm down at all and lost his temper.
She wanted to include the kid in eh conversation.
But he was having none of it and cancelled the honeymoon as well.
She is rightfully upset that he is ruining everything about their wedding.
This story appeared simple at first, but it is far more complicated than I had anticipated. I’m not sure who is correct or incorrect here. While I believe she could have asked the child to leave so she could take pictures with her husband, what if the child remained with his father the entire time? We also don’t know how many photos she photoshopped him out of. Not only that, but she also kept the originals, so I’m not sure what her motivations were. The only thing that bothers me is that it appears that this guy is purposefully leaving out a lot of information in order to make her look bad.
People had a lot of mixed feelings on this one.
A lot of people supported him.
And called her out for being fake.
Maybe she doesn’t really care for the kid.
And only did it so she would get married to the guy.
We can only assume as we don’t know what her motivations were.
A lot of people didn’t accept her excuse at all.
We haven’t got an update so we don’t know how it is going for them now.
However, there were also quite a few people who disagreed with him.
A lot of people wanted more information so things could be clearer.
People called him out for losing his temper and thinking about it.
He might be making it a bigger deal than it actually is.
If she really didn’t like the kid, she would not have kept the originals and would have cut him out of all the wedding pictures.
Some people hammered the point that he needed to apologize.
What are your thoughts on the entire situation? Do you think she should have handled it differently and taken photos without the kid in the first place? Or do you believe the man is exaggerating the situation? What would you do if you were in this situation? Let us know in the comments, and don’t forget to share this story with others so they can join in the discussion as well.
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